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What does it mean to say, for example, someone in you family has been twice removed? (link)
It means, say someone says your cousin twice removed...

It would be your cousin's children's children.


Well yesterday was my brothers birthday but he died about half a year ago.I'm really sad cause he would of been 22 years old. I noticed that my dad is sad about it and I'm also feeling the same but a bit confused I'm not sure wut to think or feel. I want to do something special to give him the message he's still alive in my heart though I'm not sure what to do.I can't goto where he was buried cause he was buried in Florida and I live in Texas. it's a long story but yea... any idea's would be highly appreciated thanks in advance.
-my prayers goto all who need them- (link)
Could you visit a spot you both liked, or he liked and leave something there? Like a beach, or park or something?

I'm sorry for your loss.


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i'm 13 and my mom won't let me get pierced ears. the problem is....earrings are my favorite jewelry & i'm obsessed with looking at them & buying them (except i can't because i can't wear them!!). so i have to wear clip-ons and they don't have a big variety and they come off easily or break easily, etc... i really want pierced ears, i think i'm probably the only 13 year old girl i've ever met who has no pierced ears (except ones that didn't want them, and i've only met one girl like that). i know i shouldn't give in to peer pressure but ever since i was really little, i saw this woman wearing earrings & i wanted to wear those SO badly! my mom says i'm not responsible or w/e. we have a housekeeper & i did chores FOR her and proved i was responsible and i have contacts and hamster and i clean my room a lot and EVERYTHING but she still won't let me have one! sometimes i tend to be somewhat irresponsible like every normal girl but then she points it out AND IGNORES ALL THE RESPONSIBLE THINGS I DO! idk what to do, anyway i could convince my mom about pierced ears or somehow do it at home??? thanks i rate (link)
Well, I would suggest keeping up what you are doing and possibly keeping a list of everything you have done. Then show it to your mom. Ask her what her reasons are exactly? Maybe she had a bad experience?

You could do some research and find out more about it. The risks involved, how you can stop those risks and a list of trusted people where you live.

I really don't think you should do it yourself. Not only would it be very painful (it is painful with the piercing gun, but after the inital pain, it is all over) you could could get halfway through and find it too painful to carry on. It could so easily go wrong or get infected.

I personally would just keep asking. Show my Mum what I had found out about it. Ask her her reasons and explain yours. Ask her friends, who have let their own children have it done to put in a good word for you.

Good luck!




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