Well, my name is Amanda and I'm 23. I'm a military wife living in Idaho, althougth I'm from Tennessee. I have a little girl, age four, her name is Kailee. I'm not that old, but I've been through some shit in my short lifetime. I am also a Mary Kay Beauty Consultant! SO I happen to know a lot about skin care.
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okwell my sister got caught sneaking out and ever sincemy parents wont let me do anythng even though i would never do that. so is there anyway that i can get them to relax, and see that im not like her?
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Well, you have to do what I did.
Tell your parents they can trust you. Ask them to just give you something small to be responsible for, or let you do something that isn't a big deal. Tell them you will prove to them that you are NOT like your sister, and that you can be trusted.
Tell them that you want to prove to them that they can trust you, and they can rely on you to follow thier rules.
Surely they will appreciate this and give in a little bit. Hope this helps.
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What do i do when i have an abuse of mother, who has mode swings, and is VERY abuse of somtime, its starting to be more abuseive than not, i am scared to tell anyone cause i know that it will come back to her and she will hurt me, like last week i didnt do my chores and she twisted my wrist, and now i have a sprained wrist.
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First of all, why isn't your Dad taking care of you then?
Second, if your Mom is hurting you this badly, you need to report her. After a while, it's no longer an accident and she means to hurt you. She might be great when she's calm, and you might love her to death, but one day she could go too far, hurt you too badly, and that would be it. You could get hurt serioulsy bad for life, or worse, she could kill you. You need to report her to the police dear. Or at least tell a counselor at your school.
What will happen is this: They will take you and your sister out of your mother's home, and probably with your Dad or Grandmother. They will investigate your mother, and probably look at your injuries. Child abuse is not taken lightly.
And she will not be able to hurt you again. You need to tell authorities if your Dad and Grandmother can't do anything about it.
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What do i do when my mom just cares about her boyfriend and she never wants me and my sister around, and all she says to me and my sister is that were imbarssments, and i hear her having sex all the time with her boyfriend, and i found a vibrater in her room! what do i do i feels like i dont even have a mother!! when i was sick with the flu she didt come home til 6 o'clock in the morning I was rushed in emergancy room, thanks to my sister calling the ambulance! what do i do I NEED HELP!
Ps-she doesnt even make us dinner or anything (link)
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First of all, this is rediculous. As a mother, I couldn't imagine staying out all night when my child is home with the flu. I hope you were okay.
I think you should talk to your mother about this. Tell her you just love her so much and you miss being with her, and you miss her loving you back. Explain these things to her without attacking her. That is important!! You don't want to attack her, otherwise she'll put up a defense, she'll find everything little thing you and your sister do wrong, and turn it around on you. You just want to approach her nicely and lovingly.
IF she doesn't change in a couple of weeks, then you should probably go to a family member. Like a Grandmother or an Aunt. Or even your Dad if he's around. Explain to them the situation and that you have tried talking to your mother, but you still feel like she just doesn't care.
Lastly, it's very important that you don't tell your mother that you are going to another family member. Otherwise she'll beat you to them and she could possibly make you look bad to your family.
Hope this helps and things get better soon!!!
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