hey my names christina from katy
and i love to help people ,, i will tell you things tht i would do if i was in that situation .. you dont have to take my advice and if you do , i hope i helped you out .. ♥christina
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I have two younger brothers (10 and 14) and me (16) and today me and my mother were talking about how old we're all getting and how fast we're growing up and she said "well not fast enough" and i asked what she meant and she said, "as long as you guys are this young i cant leave your father" and she completely broke down and started crying and said "I cant take it any longer" and i said "just leave him now" but she refuses to do anything until we're all married and on our own, but i hate this because i havnt noticed until now how miserable she is, my dad keeps telling her she's worthless and treating her like crap and telling her we're bad children and its all her fault - she's a bad mother (when she's really not!!) And the thing is he's been treating her like this for about 6 years, (we call it "the daily burst out" everyday my dad has to use her as a verbal punchbag for atleast 1 hour before he can go out and pretend to be happy, its like his way of getting all the anger out so he can live a normal life... he had a pretty messed up childhood) I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO. i cant mak myself grow up any quicker!! or my brothers.. and i feel bad telling my mom to leave him like this. and she wont anyways. WHAT DO I DO??? (link)
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well your mom is deffinatley going through a bad tim ei know becuz im kinda goin through thte same now.. your mom is doing it because she cares about you and dosent want you to be without a father and/or she needs to find a way to support yall.. make sure your mom knows how you feel and make sure she knows you love her ..
good luck ..
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