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So I'm 15, and pregnant. My mom says I can't keep the baby. She wants me to get an abortion, and at the most an adoption. But I couldn't bring myself to do either. She doesn't want me to keep it! What can I do?
I know it will be hard, and I don't have a job, but before it is born I will be old enough to get a job, and so will my very supporting boyfriend. It's tough, but I have supporting friends, a supporting family, and a supporting boyfriend. But she doesn't want me to have it :( what can I do? What can I tell her? (link)
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Im sorry to hear that your mother does not support your decision to keep your baby. yeah YOUR BABY which means no matter what anybody says the last word and the final decision is yours. If you don't wanna have an abortion and don't wanna adopt out your baby then you don't have to, if you say your boyfriend is supportive and also your family and friends then you will be fine. You need to do whats right for you because your mother is not the one living your life and you don't wanna do something that you will end up regretting for the rest of your life and hating yourself for and that is something that your mother has to understand. And most mothers when their daughters give birth and actually sees their grandchild they will be happy and usually supportive straight away..so maybe your mother just needs time to get her head around the idea that you're having a baby and that you want to keep him/her.. =)
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okay im back i mean we are so in love ( i think) but things are kinda changing i mean dont get me wrong im so in love with this guy and he loves me to i knw he does but the thing is im so feed up with him telln me to make promises tht i wont start seeing anybody else and that im not havng intercourse with anybody else but its like he is breking a promise he made to me by talkn to other gurls but his is what he always say to me " baby dont get mad if u see me talkn to another girl cause you my baby and you my #1 gurl" at the time it be sweet but when i really think about it i be on some moe type stuff but i love him and im kinda feed up so what should i do please tell me (link)
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AWw sounds like what i went through..i know your inlove with him and think he's in love with you. guys are different from us like that. Some guys say one thing and do another. If he's making you keep all your promises and not his then you have a big problem. You should ask him straight out next time he talks to another girl, how would he feel if you went and had intercourse with another guy? and of course he's gonna say that talking and having intercourse are not the same thing and that's when you remind him "PROMISE IS A PROMISE" if he really cared and love you like he says he does then he would have respected you and your feelings. If he doesn't then you should break it off and if he really does love you then you will see him begging for you to get back together and he will learn that you are serious when it comes to your promises..hope you find that helpful..let me know how it goes with you two. xo
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