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Q: hey,
today I got in a hung fight with my mom!! i'll spare you the deltails but i will tell you this, it envolved slamming plates, both of us yelling and crying and stuff...wow she told me that i was going to H*** (i am a goody-goody i've always made sure i was going to Heaven) and she sed to burn in H*** and i got so upset

what should i do? i;m just not getting along with her PLEASE HELP I RATE WELL!!!!
Okay well... No matter what your mom does she always loves you!!! And she probably didn't mean what she said. When someone gets angry they tend to say things that they don't mean. I would start off by saying that your sorry for what ever it is you did. It's better to talk to your mom and not yell at her. She won't start to throw plates at you if you don't get her mad... I would just tell her that your sorry.. (Chances are) She won't ignore you when you say your sorry or confess to being mean. Don't stress out, it will be okay.. You can never stay mad at someone who loves you for to long. Deep down inside your mom doesn't mean what she said and you and her both know that. If you keep fighting with her then thats really bad. Your mom will never understand everything in your lyfe so while you live with her your going to fight but don't make it so you fight with dishes and etc. It's better to talk things out. That probably sounded really orignal but its true. You don't have to tell her everything that's going on in your life to make her understand you but just say to her "I'm sorry for what i did" chances are she won't accept it right away (although she might) but after you say that just walk away and go into your room (don't slam your door) and chances are in the end it will all work out. Also make sure you at least "sound" like you mean it when you say sorry. Don't take this word for word or don't use this advice at all. But be sure to write some feed back.. Best Wishes Amanda, and Rebecca

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