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Q: i need help my parents stariotype me like if i don't want to study they automaticly think i just want to watch t.v. i don't i have told them that they do that they say the same thing every time they won't litsen to me and i am in major need of help because they blame everything on me even if its not true
i no exactly wut u mean. i've been there b4 many times and it rilli sux. my parents are always sayin 2 mi "u have such an addittude!" or "don't be disrespectful to mi" or my personal favorite "UR GROUNDED!!". well, u may not believe this but there r ways to deal wit ur parents. first of all, wen they get mad at u don't bak down. show them that ur not a little kid anymore and maybe they'll listen to u. have a family discussion wit dem and tell them how u feel lyk a civilized adult (trust mi it works!). parents may always ask respect from u, but hunny u gotta get sum respect frum them! if u do den maybe they'll listen 2 u...:)
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Q: I got my first kiss wednesday and I want to be able to tell my mom and I want to be able to talk to her about things like that and I don't know what to do. Like what can i do so that my moms and mines relationship is stronger? and so i can tell her and talk to her about things like this.
spend some time with ur mom. i no that ppl think that mom "bonding time" is lame, but it rilli works if u wanna hav a stronger relationship wit ur mom! it is also sumtyms fun. if u show an interest in spending tym wit ur mom den i'm sure dat she'll take an even greater interest in u. then tlk about ur kiss and anythin else that u wanna tell her about. i'm sure thins will work out great, and u'll find a new best friend (ur mom)! :D
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Q: hi, sry if u think this iz annoying (cuz so many ppl hav this problem) erm, my parents r gettin a divorce. i'm really sad cause i will miss havin them both unda the same roof 2gether. but at the same tym i'm glad dat the constant fiting will b over. i wish there wus some way i could get them bak 2gether to be happy. wut do u think i shud do?
first off i dun't tink its annoyin at all :) its a rilli serious prob dat a lotta ppl gotta go thru and it sux. well i dun't think there iz anything U can do 2 get dem bak 2gether. its rilli ur parents choice to wanna b 2gether r not. all u can do iz maybe hav dem tlk about they're differences 2gether and hope maybe they'll work thins out. wut u can do 2 cope iz concentrate on other thins lyk skool and friends 2 take ur mind off ov dem. i'm rilli sry dat u must go thru dis! xox
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heYy yALl, mah name iz stephanie .:stefy or stef 4 short:. umm, i luv 2 give advice and i'm pretti good at it, so ask mi any ques u want! I luv to dance! .:hip hop n jazz:., sing, act .:plays:., horsebak ride!!.:english or western but i like english betta:., sports .:soccer, tennis, volleyball, swimming, etc:. and hang out wit mah friends .:u guys noe who u r!!:. so i hope dat gives u a lil info on mi! xox :)
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