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okay. i need to talk to someone and none of my friends can really help. my parents are divorced and i dont see my dad very often. i live with my mother who is an alcoholic and gets pissed off easliy. today my brother and mom got into a huge fight. she is now gone, i mean she just left. i called her and she said that she just needed to be alone. she hasnt returned yet, and i dont know what to do. i am only 14 and my brother 11. she is most likely going to come home incredibly drunk and when she is drunk life just sucks... i dont know what to do anymore because i am just sick of it. this isnt the first time she has just left......

wow, im so sorry. my parents are divorced too and i dont see my dad very often, but i guess your a little worse off cause you have to deal with an alcohalic. my advice to you is to either:
a.)try and talk to your mom when she is sober, and explain to her how it makes you feel when she is drunk and how it makes you feel when she leaves. maybe do some research on how to recover as an alcoholic and tell her it would make you feel better if she slowed it down on the drinking.
b.)call your dad. i know that might seem hard to do cause you dont see him often but tell him whats going on and maybe try and find a time for just you and him to get together and just talk. maybe who knows...he can talk to her about it

i hope i helped, cause i really understand to some extent what your going through! if you need to talk more about it my IM is: imasuperstar673!!

Love, Gumby (( aka Mel ))

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