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I'm a 14 year girk l and i don't have a father ok my mom didn't tell my dad that i was his daughter till last year.After he found out he still doesn't talk to me his wife don't like me either i don't talk to my dads side of the family i have alot of brothers and sisters and i only know one of them. My brother dad and my dad are cousins and my brothers dad is a crake head and he was the only father that was there for me half of my life he was in and out of jail.My mom won't take my dad for childsupport she said to many headaches what do i do (link)
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Maybe, your mom should talk to Social Security! Even though you love her (but not your dad) then you can be assigned new parents(or go to you a family member to stay with) But while going somewhere else, you should get a pshiciatrist!
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I'm a 15 year old girl. I'm responsible and respectful. I don't drink, smoke, have sex, do drugs, or anything of the sort. I haven't had a boyfriend in almost 4 years and have no interest in having one, I get exceptional grades, and I'm extremely focused on my schoolwork and acting career. The problem is with my father. This past winter, I met a guy in my drama class. I'm a freshman and he's a senior, I'm white and he's black. We have no interest in a relationship, but we are very good friends. I have alot of guy friends, and this was no different. I'm friends with this guy because I can relate to him. We both struggle with depression, have a love of acting, and we just get along great. He gets good grades and has a future. He's respectful to authority and gets along with everyone. We started talking on the phone. It was just general stuff-cooking, acting, music, that kind of thing. My father is kind of racist, which is stupid, i know. He thinks that a person shouldn't associate with a black person outside of work or school. He's being a hypocrite, since I know that he's had plenty of african-american friends. Anyways, my father (whom I have no respect for for several reasons and who doesn't live with me and hasn't since before i was in kindergarten) found out and now I'm not allowed to talk to any guys on the phone whatsoever unless its my boss or a male relative. He said he'd reconsider when I'm 16, but he's already said that he probably won't allow it until I'm 18. This is ridiculous-I've already told 3 guys this year that I wouldn't go out with them, and I dont want a boyfriend at all. I'm a responsible teenager and I simply want a little freedom. I never go anywhere with my friends, and I've never done anything to make them not trust me. My father gets mad if I say anything about my friends, or anything at all besides my grades and schoolwork.He constantly puts me down about my grades and schoolwork and makes fun of me, but i'm required to call him once a week and endure the rude remarks. I just want to be able to talk to my guy friends on the phone, and i think this is extremely unfair. He won't listen to my point of view at all. How can I get him to see things my way? (link)
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It sound like you need to tell your dad how you feel! But if he's racist you may have a problem. In this case maybe you should talk to a doctor, or teacher, but dont follow your dad in being racist.
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i've been really unhappy all my life anmd i put it to my dad dieing and school. i now getting homeschoolded but still so unhappy i think im still greaving my dad i am not allowed to talk about him any more and have not friends around to keep his memory alive. He was a great dad didnt do anything wrong my mum got a new partern 7 months after he died. I meet a guy of the internet as mates and i dont no if im in love with him coz i like him so much or coz he reminds me how i would hug n kiss my dad goodnight i was only 6 when he died now 16. I never b4 let my gard down would nt let anyone touch me not my brother or my mum not even mentors at school i let my gard down with him im so convused and uhappy i cart sleep i thought being away from all those kids who bullied me would take all the painaway (link)
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Sometimes, the best way to feel better about something is to talk about it. You will never get over it, but it is unhealthy to live being unhappy 24/7
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