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Hi! I'm Tiffany and I am a 19 year old college student in Florida. I have had an older accounton advicenators before, and was actually a moderator, but I forgot the password. :(
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Im a17 year old guy living in South Africa and my dads having an affair. Most nights he sneeks out and when I look out the window I see him going to the womans house ( she lives practically across the street). The thing is this woman is a family friend to my family and my parents work with her plus to top it all off she's a teacher at my school! My dad doesnt know that I know about the affair. What should I do?! This is really tearing of apart and some advice will be greatly appreciated. (link)
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You could blackmail your dad into admitting his morally inappropriate behavior, but if you're anything like me-that's hard to do because you love him and you don't want your mother and family to suffer the consequences. I do think you should talk to him and suggest that his actions are wrong.
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my mom is thinking about getting a divorce with my dad. but my dad doesn't want to and he is trying to make sure my mom won't. my mom has been crying and she can't eat or she might puke and she can't sleep. she jus read a book called the the divorce express . she won't even sleep in the same bed as him. she sleeps on the floor in the living room. they don't even talk to each other anymore. i dont know what to do cuz i really dont want them to separate. (link)
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It really takes a lot to finalize a divorce. Mom may just need some space right now; She might just be going through a phase and doesn't feel the support and affection she may have once had from your dad. If this is the case, then maybe your parents really need to have a long discussion on the consequences and tolls this will have on the family. If your mom is just being, for the lack of a better word, selfish- then there really isn't anything that can be done if she has really and truely made up her mind about it (which I doubt). She just may need more convincing right now. I hope I helped :
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