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I'm a 21 year old Indian female. For a few days now my past has been haunting me which includes the following: 1. I had a boyfriend for 2 years and he was a great guy and we were as intimate as is possible (which even resulted in something terrible which i think you can guess)so anyway we broke up a year back and now i feel very regretful about everything that happened between us...i mean at that time it felt right. The reason for my guilt is also the fact that in my culture and family such intimacy is not allowed, so every time i speak to my folks i feel like a criminal; 2.Since i was so sure of being with my boyfriend forever and i was the one who initiated the break up i have started hating myself as i could not keep the promise of commitment.And now i don't think I'll be able to handle another guy again. I'm really sad and disturbed please help me. (link)
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You past is haunting you because you haven't been able to come to terms with what happen, accept it, and forgive your self to move on. I'm guessing you got pregnant, what happen? I know how you feel because I went through almost the same with my ex and til this day my parents don't mention it and if they do it's a screw up or mistake I made. But you have to talk about it, you have to learn to forgive yourself and accept things the way they are and accept that things happen the way they did. But most importantly talk about it. If you need to vent or anything. Feel free to message me. I'll listen and help as much as I can.
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