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My parents always take their anger out on me.
My dad has been doing it for years, so I've gotten used to it.
Lately, my mom has become irritated with my dad,
and it seems like every day, she finds something to yell at ME about,
when I know she's really mad at my dad, not me.
She'll yell at me about the dumbest things like having too many files on the computer.
A few hours after she yells at me, she apologizes,
and asks if I accept her apology, which I don't,
because I think that's unacceptable that my parents can just take their anger out on me.
Do you think I should talk to my parents, or at least my mom about this?
I really think we need to go to family counseling.
Or should I just try to accept the fact that my parents get angry sometimes and need to do that occasionally? (link)
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Yes i definatly think you should talk to your family about it. if you all disagree maybe counsling is good for you. Communication is most important.
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i absoulty hate my dad. omg. like. i cant stand him. hes so anoyying, i mean, ive always hated him, and i tired telling my mom, and she tried to fix it, but it didnt work. anyways, i spent like forever cooking this one thing, and hes like it taste like shit. and im like omg. and my mom was like focing him to eat it. and then, he never listens to me, like i always told him to take my dog out with the leash. but he never listened, and my dog ended up dieing, because of him. if he would have listened to me, it wouldn't of happened. and hes just so stupid sometimes, anything i do, is never good enough. & then for like all of 7th grade, i like failed all my classes, just to see what he'd do. and then i decided that was stupid, because im smart, and the quicker i can get out of the house and away from him, the better. and all he cares about is my brothers, and there stupid sports. but, when i was in cheerleading, and beauty pagents, he never even wanted to go. i mean yeah sure i know that would be boring for a guy, but still. anyways, my point is, how do i ignore him? or what can i do? (link)
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I think you should talk to your dad. Communication is key. Maybe you can find out why he is doing this. IF that doesnt work ask your mom to sighn you both up for counsling be cause a relationship with your dad is an important thing in life.If he is still like that i think that you should not ignore him but stop giving a fuss to impress him.
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My mother is getting married in September and I really think it is a mistake. I think she is really forcing her fiance to marry her and he feels guilty about telling her he doesn't want to. She tells me that he really wants to, but I don't think he does. I have spoken to him many times and he doesn't act like he is very interested in the wedding or in being married. I know he cares for her, she had two major heart attacks and he was by her side for both - and she broke her ankle recently and he was there for her every day. He goes places with her, comes to family gatherings, etc, so I do not doubt that he loves her, it's just the commitment of marriage - he was married before, and his ex-wife left him for someone she met on the internet, so it was not a nice separation and my mother was married to my father for 20+ years and it was a horrid relationship. My father was abusive and a compulsive gambler & liar - so I think she is just looking for peace in her life. I don't want to deny her any love or happiness - but forcing someone to marry you is not right. Her fiancee is still caring for his aging mother and the mother lives in his house, which my mother will be moving into after they are married. My mother thinks that his mother is not going to live very long, and if she dies, they are selling his house and moving out to a adult community. Now, this is what she is telling me, I haven't heard his side of the story.
I would hope he would tell her if he did not want to go through with this, but like I said, he doesn't want to make her unhappy. She is very obsessed with moving into the house and the wedding. This will be the first house she will ever live in, she lived in apartments her whole married life, and her fiancee is putting her name on the mortgage, so she feels that she owns the house with him. Legally she does, but the house is still her fiancee's and his mother's because they were there before she was. Her fiancee is remodeling the kitchen and other parts of the house, for her I suppose, but I am wondering if she is making him do that? It really bothers me that I feel this way, but I cannot shake it and I am on the verge of telling her how I feel, but I am wondering if that will damage our relationship or even if that will make a difference in how she is acting towards all of this? I have told her before how I feel, in a round-about way - but not directly. My two sisters feel the same way, but their attitude is that she is a grown woman and can make decisions on her own, and that her fiancee should tell her if he is not happy, but I really think he just doesn't have the guts to do so. Does my mom really want this fake happiness for the rest of her life? Should I tell her how I really feel? Any advice would be greatly appreciated (link)
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I thinjk you should sit your mom dpwn with her boy friend and really discuss it. Communication is key.If they are not ready then they are not ready.
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so this kid liked me. and i liked him we went out and he broke up with me and im still not over him he has this never ending crush on this one girl which she just teases him. and i was wondering from A GUY. A GUY. why do you have crushes liek that i mean i know girls do to but it seems to occure more with guys. have you ever liked a girl and dumped her and liked her again?? if so what did she do to catch your attention, how does any girl catch your attention.?? (link)
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OK. For myself I would never do that to a girl. I think its important to keep a relationship. I think that you should find somebody else. If he likes you again its his fault for letting you go.If you have feelings for him too then you should talk to him about it. Never forget that communication is key.
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