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Whenever my parents go out to "buy" me clothes, that's when the problem starts. They always buy me things like plaid skinny leg pants or big, oversized T-shirts, and that just isn't my style- I prefer jeans and a nice, form-fitting tee. Is there a way to tell then that I don't wear things that I used to wear as a little girl without hurting their feelings? (link)
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Yes there definitly is. All you need to say is how much you appreciate them spending there time buying you colthes all the time but maybe it would be fun if you went with them. Suggest going with the to shop. Not only will you get to pick out the clothes yourslef, but you can spend "quality time" with them. You could also just tell them how you feel, the only reason why they are probably still buying you this stuff is because you haven't spoken up about it and they think you like it.
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Okay I bought my mom a card for mOthers day and i want to write something special in it but i dont know what to write! Does any one have any opinions? Thanks ill rate high! (link)
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Tell her how much she means to you. Write her a poem etc. be creative. No matter what she will love it because you wrote it and spent your time writing it to her.
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ok my dad and stepmom are getting divorced. i dont live with them, so it shouldn't bother me as much as it does, and i dont know it's just a big problem. i'm afraid i'll never see my stepmom again once they get divorced, and i don't want that to happen. I got really close to her and i love her, she's almost like a sister to me. i know i cant' stop them from getting divorced, but how can i get through this and still be happy and have a good outlook on things? i'm normally an optomistic person, and i want to stay that way. i don't expect never to be sad, but what are some ways to deal with this? i went through a divorce a few years ago with my real parents, but i dont know how to get through it again. thanks in advance to everyone who helps. love ya! (link)
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I am so sorry hun. Divorces are so awful. My parents have gone through a divorce too. I would tell your stepmom that you would still like to hangout and be close because you don't want to lose that special relationship with her. Sit down with her and talk with her and tell her how much she means to you and how you would like to coninue a realtionship with her.
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Hi. Please answer. Right now my mom is going through divorce with my father. They were married 18 years and he can't find a job. My mom is paying him 1300 a month becuase he can't get a job. 'temporary living confindments' (she kept the house) is what its caused. This is making us have money problems. She travels for her job as well and I'm entering Highschool(Shes stressed) One day I was going to put something in my mom's glove compartement and I found a box of cigarettes. My grandparents were visiting and I told my grandma and so I confronted my mom. She promised not to smoke again. I took her cigarettes (we were together) and threw them out. Today I found a box of cigarettes in her glove compartement again. What should I DO? (link)
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Divorces are very stressful and hard on so many people. My parents split when I was little and it was very hard. I would confront your mom again and tell her that you don't not want her to smoke. But also talk to her about the divorce only if you are comfortable. A lot of people smoke when they are stressed and going through rough times but that doesn't make smoking ever ok. I'm so sorry about the divorce, hang in there sweetie.
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How do you get parents to be less strict?! i rate high! =)
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I think you should let them know and even show them how mature you are. Make good decisions and do what your parents say. It may pay off in the near future.
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