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well for as long as i can remeber i havent gotten along with my mother... and i know she hates me.... she causes me to cut myself a lot too.. right now i have a a broken knee cap and 2 broken ribs becuase i got beat up by a bunch random people becuase i had to walk home at 1130 at night through the projects cause my mom made me get out of the car... she always told me that her life would have been better if i wasnt born... she left me outside when it was 40 degrees outside and i only had a t shirt and shorts on for 3 hours..... i dont nkow what to do... how can i make things better

Love always
Kryysti (link)
You don't need to put yourself through all that pain. You should call family if have soome and if not then you need to call CPS! i know it sounds bad but nothing is worse than the torture you are obviously going through! If things start to get worse yo uneed to get your things packed and go stay at a friends house because in my opiion your safer anywhere that your mom can't get you.

*i'll pray fro you*

~*~KiSsEs~*~


my family hates me but my friesn family treats me liek im their daughter they feed em take me places im over there everyday i spend teh nite there even when my friesn not home and everything what shood i do tho cuz its so depressign saying that ur freids parents are basically ur parestn and its sad to think that my parents cant ever be liek them i eman her dad even gives me adive adn tells me to watch out on waht boys i date and everyting im confused (link)
Tell your family how you feel and what your goin through. if you don't see any change then look at the situation as an advantage!.....When you need advice or help you know where to go and who to count on!


if a guys asks me out that i really dont like or even know i find it really hard to say no. if i just plainout say no i feel really realyl mean. but if u say yes, i know i will be miserable. if i say we can just be freinds the guy will just follow me around for a while even though i dont even want ot be freinds
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Just say that you already have a boyfriend that lives in another state/city


Hey there,
How can I get my mom to like this guy that I'm starting to get real close with. She's only met him once but I can tell that she doesn't like him. She thinks that he is meaning something different when she asks him a question. Like he said how people at work like him because he always talks to them so she thinks that he's just charming me too. How can I get her to open her mind a little bit more because he's completely opposite from my last boyfriend... (link)
Tell your mom about his personality traits and what yall have in common and what you like about him. Just tell her tyhe truth because if she cared about your happiness then she'd at least ettempt to like him. But if she doesn't then let it go because you shouldn't let the way other people fell n think affect the way you do.

~KiSsEs~


i hit him to i know i should nt it is me that hits out first please giv me more advice (link)
Well if its the alcohol that makes you violent and hit him first then stop drinkin. because your not just putting yourself in danger but also your children. i KNOW its hard to stop but at least limit yourself to not as many drinks. *Stephanie*


female,20 2 children eldest 2 youngest 7 weeks,differant dads when i drink alchol i get violent not al the time just when im stressed my partner over the past 4 weeks my partener has broken my finger n given me a black eye on both occasions he has said sorry and it will never happen again. he has taken my eldest son on as his own. i dont want to be a single mum with 2 children by differant fathers but i dont want to be a nervous wreck either i feel low in myself he alwys puts me down telling me im ugly and fat i just dont know which way to turn the violence only happens when we are both drunk please give me advice (link)
STOP with the alcohol....it could only make the situation worse! If you stoped drinkin then you wouldn.t be such a nervous wreck. But as for the violence, you need to LEAVE him. A REAL man would never lay a hand on another women, he would also know better than to put you down and call you names. Hes abusing you and one day he could hurt/injure your kids. If you cared for them you would get them out the situation while you still can. Ya it hard to be a single mom but at least you and your family would be out of danger. There are also gvt funds that could help you if you really needed it. but leaving him would make you stronger and an independent women! ~KiSsEs~


sometimes me and my mom are so close and later she makes me feel like she hates me and makes me feel guilty. what should i do? i am scared to talk to her. (link)
Don't be afraid to talk to your mom. Jus let her know how you feel cuz if you don't nothing will resolve from the situation. Me n my mom are te same way it will probabl help if you tell her how she makes you feel. ~KiSsES~




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