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Ok a bit about myself! Really don't have a lot to say..I'm 16! I love helping people out and listening to others. I completely love this site. I don't have many experiences when it comes to love life (which is the cat. that i answer the most). And i have nothing else in mind to say...i'll edit it when i come up with more!

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female i just turned 13. my mom ruined everything. i had a carnival at school today. she was the chaperone and one other person for my grade. yesterday me and my bestfriend(a guy) had a great time at our track practice. my first time doing track in my life his second. im good at it i guess. he really cares for me. we do the hurdles and high jump and a relay together. im bad at hurdles i hit half of them and fell over two. he was there for me he laughed at me(in a nice fun way we're like that to eachother) i have fun with him alot. we also love eachother which we held it off for a longtime because i didnt wana lose my bestfriend. id rather have a bestfriend than a boyfriend. but we hug alot and we kiss. we just love eachother. he was going to ask me out today at school. my mom is very controling. she hates my friends and she wont let any come over ever were the punky goths. hes real prep. but i love him he loves me everyone knows. my mom doesnt let me wear the chains and every thing but i do when i leave home. she always says everything wrong about my friends. well my mom would keep him away and always watching she stops us dancing me and him or my other friends even me with my (girl)friends as friends. we did the music my mom was always watching. i just hate it. in her words 'stay away from all thoes fucked up punk no lifes' MY MOM SAYS THAT TO ME at the party usually anywhere. my mom doesnt even know the real me. i have to hide my music and clothes and everything. on my ipod i make my songs i like 'hidden' so you have to hold two buttons to see them. my mom ruined it all. she stops me from dancing as friends with him and my other friends. WHATS SO WRONG WITH ME! my BEST FRIEND canot even comeover ever. so i see him at school and parties or when i go to the mall. i yell at my mom she doesnt leave me alone.
how do i get her to leave me alone? is there anything wrong with hugging and kissing my bestfriend romanticly? how do i get my mom to stop and leave me alone? why is it so bad for my bestfriend to be a guy? how do i get my mom to leave me alone shes making my life worse ill wear even more black? why it so bad. and anything else i forgot. please im going crazy

Hey there! Well i would normally say sit down and talk to your mom and try to fix it. But i know if i were in your shoes i wouldn't even want to attempt. Plus it sounds like she wo't even listen. You could try to talk to her and let it all out! But if you don't want to you don't have to!

The only thing i could think of now is to avoid her as much as possible! Don't even react to what she says. Ignore her completely. You don't have to sit with her all the time or whatever. You're a punky goth, fine, so what? You are who you are. And she should like you for it. Just go on with your life as normal as possible and ignore her.

If you have to respond to something just go through it subtly and try to avoid any kind of conflict.

If you do that, she might lay off a little bit, she might not. But try to get used to avoiding conflict. If it really doesn't work then talk to her or maybe someone in the family who can help your relationship with your mom.

Honey there is nothing wrong with you, and there is nothing wrong with having a guy as your best friend. There is nothing wrong with liking a guy.

I don't know if any of that helped! Tell me how it goes later on. Take care, if you want to talk let me know. Update me bye

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This is so not the right cat., but it is somehow related ... anywhoo.

Has anyone traveled someplace by Syrian Airways before? I'm going to Syria in the summer to visit my mom's side of the fam (all alone, no parents with me) and I'm kinda nervous 'cause I've heard it's a sucky airline and all that. And my parents want me to travel with that airline, I have no choice (since they're paying for the ticket!).

Is the sucky bit true?...Please share experiences or if you know of any 'airline review' sites... let me know.

Thanks in advance.

Oh kay! your so cute! Well I've never travelled in a Syrian Airways but I've heard the same thing! Anyways honey don't worry about the airways! It's not going to take that long, 2 hours max. i think less, dunno...hehe anyways the only thing you should think about is the time in Syira! Your going to have a great time with your fam.! Wish you all the best! Take care :D

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I feel horrible, my grandma just passed away earlier today. She wasn't in good condition at all, and was in a hospice bed at her home with an aid and nurse, and my aunt. Anyways we drove up to her house and spent the night at my cousins but we stopped at her house twice to see her when she was still alive. And looking at her brought me to tears because I knew this was it, they couldn't do anything. She couldn't even talk or move or swallow, she had oxygen, her mouth was open and her eyes were half closed. She could hear you though and she was aware of whats going on. And I just was choking on words... the only thing I could manage was "Hi grandma" when I went next to her. I wanted so badly to say I love you... but I didn't. I feel absolutly horrible. It was the last words I said to her, "Hi grandma," but she's gone now, and I feel so bad I never got to say I love you. And now shes gone forever... what can I do to feel better? I understand this happened for the better and thats she's in God's hands now but I just wish I got to tell her I loved her. What should I do.

Thank you.

Awww!! ='( May god bless her soul and may she rest in peace!! I really don't know what to tell you or how to give you advice...I've never went through a death situation before in my family or any of my friends that I know! But all i can say is that, honey, I'm sure that your grandmother knows you love her! I'm sure she knows that everyone in your family loves her! It's ok if you didn't tell her that you love her...because she probably felt it! The feeling was expressed by your actions...you were crying when you talked to her..that shows how much you care for her! She probably understood that you were unable to talk and spill out the words...and they're just words..the meaning behind them all were through your actions! I believe that she knows you love her...don't feel bad! ;) may she rest in peace! tc...

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