about

I am a freshman at PHN high school. I play volleyball and soccer. I like to go to chruch and just hang out with my friends. I absolutly love music and poetry!!


Some bands that I am into: Atreyu, Anberlin, Avernged Sevenfold, Aerosmith, Bettie Serveert, Beatles, Butch Walker, Chevelle, Citizen Cope, Crossfade, Dead Poetic, Demon Hunter, Death Cab for Cutie, Dave Matthews Band, Emery, Evanescence, Funeral for a Friend, Fuel, Gavin Degraw, Hawthorne Heights, Jem, John Mayer, Jimmy Eat World, Killers, Keane, Lost Prophets, Linkin Park, Maroon 5, Norah Jones, Project 86, Papa Roach, P.O.D, Rolling Stones, Switchfoot, Silverstien, Trapt, Thursday, The Wreckers, Tresspassers William, The Get Up Kids, Underoath

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advice

me and my family are fighting alot lately.. I have a really bad attitude! and I need help! please give me advice! FAST! I'll try anything!

Okay, I know what its like. You get really defensive, and you feel like you have to hold your own. Well here's the things, the calmer you are, the better thigns will be. When a fight breaks out, try and calmly explain your side of the story, or how you feel. If you feel yourself starting to get an attitude...just say that you need time and you'll be back when you are calm enough to talk things over

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Me and my brother are very close hes always there for me and I am always here for him..I am 15 and he is 20 and he just got this new girlfriend and we got along for a while but We ended up fighting and I beat her ass and my brother chose her over me...I told her i didnt want to fight her cause she is my girl but she pushed me and I poured my heart out to my brother asking him how can he choose her over me..Well he lives here and his gf is here everyday me nad her are cool now but I dont feel close to my brother like i did before I dont htink I ever can again. He always told me I was his world. and now this girl is comming between us. What should I do? I dont think i should just forgive him..he rreally hurt me I was in tears for hours the rest of the night and now he is acting like nothing even happend..Should I just say fuck him or forgive him? How can she come between me and my brother?!

Well you did say that you didn't want to fight her, but it looks like you let your pride get the best of you. You put him in a very difficult position. I hope that one day he will see that family should come before anything else. But right now you have to remember that he is hurt that you fought with her, and he probably just trying to forget about what happened. I think that you should forgive him but also let him forgive you

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