Hi my name is Sabrina. The worst thing in the world is dealing with a problem on your own. It may lead you to confusion and even leave you without a solution. It's always better to hit up someone else's opinion on things and help you see that there is light at the end of your problem. I have been through alot of things in my life, many more than you could probably count and I am only 18. I have learned alot from my expierences and still deal with some of the issues that I have before. I know how difficult life can be, it puts so much stress on you trying to be as perfect as you can. But you have to know that being you is as perfect as you can be, it just takes a while to finally notice yourself for who you are when your so distratcted by life. Anyways, anyone feel free to contact me I am just here to listen and hopefully shed some light on your problems. It's my passion to make people feel better about themselves.
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I move around alot, bouncing from Dad to Mom to Dad and back to my Mom ... once again I want to move back to my dad's but it is so much different this time here are some of the major reasons why:
1.My dad's Cancer, I feel so horrible not being there taknig care of him
2.My depression; Up here I thought I would be happier but I'm missing so much of my life that is going on down there my depression meds aren't working anymore becuase my depressions getting worse
3.All my friends are down there ... I can't make friends up here, I've been here for 6 months and I haven't made one friend ... I jsut don't want to becuase I only want my friends from CT I know everyone who is reading this is prolly like "If you try then you'll make friends don't give up" but I have tried and ... I just want you all and not some fucking Redsocks loving, black people hating, homophoboes that are up here
I know thats only three things but here are the reasons why I'd stay up here:
1.my mom's feelings
I just can't do things to make others happy anymore if it makes me depressed ... I'm growing up, I'll be gone off to college soon and I just rather be a happy person going off bymyself knowing I have friends right back at home then going and being depressed and not remembering social skills to make friends becuase honestly ... ever since that bastard Adam "hypnotysed" me under his spell I have lost all sense of myself and I have been trying to get it back since I broke free ... I just want to be happy
Please Help,
Gizmo (link)
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Well this is a tough situation. As for your dad, I think you should try and spend time with him. Cancer is a scary thing, I have lost someone close to me with cancer before. Spending time with the people you love is key. It lets them know you care and are there for them in their time of saddness. Your dad probably needs you right now, needs your support and love while he's dealing with his cancer. As for your mom, tell her you love her as well. Sit down with her and explain to her why you need to be with your dad right now. Tell her you will call her alot, etc etc. Go and visit her as often as you can. Just because you can't be with her all the time doesn't mean you don't love her.
As for your depression, try talking with a psychologist. Tell them your meds aren't working, and instead of just jumping on medication take out time and talk to someone about how you feel. Get to the root of the problem, you deserve to be happy. It is also key through all this to try and do something good for yourself, dont get caught up in everything just to only lose yourself in the long run. Maybe the reason why your sad is because of your parent's split and other things in your life, there is always hope and always happiness to come in everyone's life you just have to really be determined to grab hold of it. If you want Id be happy to talk with you further on this, I am passionate about giving advice on familt situations, my email is Aquarius8715@cs.com, hope to hear from you sweets, take care.
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Ever since I was little my family has always gone to church. Now that I am a teenager and I have thought long and hard and researched about our faith... I have found that I don't believe in anything that our faith says to believe in. My parents don't know that. However I want to tell them that I don't want to go to church anymore and I have tried once to tell my dad that I think I am old enough to make my own decisions and he just shot back at me "I DON'T THINK YOU ARE"
So my question is how can I tell my parents that I don't want to go to church anymore? (link)
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Well, if you feel you don't believe in it then no one can make you believe in it. Religion is a choice, you shouldn't have to be forced into something you don't agree with. However, don't be so rushed with this. Your parents only want they think is best for you. Since they have those beliefs they would love if you shared those with them. It's hard for parents to accept a consious choice of their sons/daughters that isn't what they believe in. If you are younger and under the age of at least 18 I believe your parents do have a right to enforce rules, but there is a line where you know what you truly feel you want for youself. If you want to join a different religion suggest that to your parents, just set them down and talk about your beliefs, show them how serious and real you are about this.
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