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Ok heres the story,Christmas day is when everything started...my whole family cept for me started fighting, my brother and his friend was over here and my mom started in on my brother and my brother ended up cutting his wrist, blood was running down his arm, i also cut myself that day because i was upset with everything thats been happeneing lately, when i cut my arm i blacked out, and well the story goes on, yesterday and today my parents have been fighting and i mean seriously fighting, my brother and his friend left yesterday and got one of their friends to come and pick them up and after they left my parents started fighting and have been fighting all day today and i cant take it no more, they were fighting so bad my mom was hitting my dad they spit on eachother, one of em pushed the other into the christmas tree and it broke at the bottom and everything on it droped on the floor and broked as well, and they wont stop fighting, i tell them to stop and they wont...they wont listen to me, i told them maybe they do need to get a divorce if they're gonna fight this much because there aint no sence in em being together if they are gonna fight 24/7 and i dont know what to do i cant take it anymore, i wanna get out of here but i have no where to go, no one wants me, and i have no one to talk to about any of i because i have no friends and i dont know what to do...the thoughts of my running away crossed my mind but i wouldnt have anywhere to go and its to cold outside to run away...so if anyone has any advice to give me please do...i need all the advice i can get, sorry this is so long, Thanks to who ever takes the time to read this and send me their thoughts. (link)
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Man i hate these kinda situations, i am really sorry i hope things will get better for you. Have you tried calling a close neighbor or relitive such as your grandparents or something to see if you could come and stay with them while things are still a mess at your house, dont run away becuase thats whats wrong with people today they run away from their problems..but eventually they will hav eto face them again..so just try to deal with it all now and i am sorry! xOx Tory
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For as long as I can remember, my aunt has always been an alcoholic. My family has stopped being in contact with her because she has caused many problems with my family in the past. There are days she will drink so much she'll pass out and other days she'll become extreamly violent. I never see her anymore and yet I'm worried about her. I'm more so worried about my 10 year old cousin (her daughter). My aunt has been on and off with drinking. Before I was born it was really bad. My mother told me that it was because she was in love with this guy but he was Chinese and his parent's didn't want him to marry a woman of another race so they had to end their relationship. That was nearly 30 years ago. I fear for my aunt. Although I do not have a close relationship with her, let alone any relationship with her at all, regardless she is family and I'm scared she is going to take things too far and hurt herself or someone else. I need to find her help. My mother and my other aunt have been trying to find places to take her but every place said that they needed more information about her problems. We really don't know at all why she is the way that she is. Her husband isn't any help at all. He just sits his fat ass on the couch with a beer in one hand and the TV remote in the other. Their house is a terrible mess and a person living on the streets would be too disgusted to even live there. They have a 10 almost 11 year old daughter and they do take care of her, and as a matter of fact, she's a spoiled brat. I'm still worried because the environment she is living in is in no way healthy for her. I don't know what to do. My family doesn't know what to do. I need to find her help but we can't find any place for her. Please, please, help. I apologize for the length of this question. (link)
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Ok calm down, i would just keep searching for places in your area to get her help, and if all else fails just sit your aunt, your cousin, and your uncle down at a table and talk to them, tell her that she needs to choose. Either her daughter or her alchol problem..try to make her understand that she is risking everything that she has built and that social suvices can easly take her daughter away and put her in a menta house. Ask her if she would rather try to stop or be in an enviroment where she has nothing. I hope i helped. =) xOx tory
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