I'm 15. Been in a relationship so far with an amazing guy for two years. I absolutely love helping other people, although I might not always be of any help, I try my best! I'm not a judgemental person, nor do I ever intent to be.
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E-mail: ashleymarie91206@aim.com
Gender: Female
Location: Pennsylvania
Age: 15
AIM: ashleymarie91206
Member Since: June 23, 2008
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A few months ago, i wrote on here about my mixed family.( I married my high school sweetheart after we both had previous relationships and children from them. Her kids were absolutly wild, never punished for anything in their life, just completely wreckless) Now my worst fears have come to reality and i am now facing a teen pregnancy with the youngest of my step daughters. Of course she is hysterical about the situation and wants to get an abortion. I am entirely against that and would never let my sons think that this is a way out of this kind of situation. her mom (my wife) is saying that she can do whatever she needs to do. Do i allow her to have the abortion or make her own up too her mistake? (link)
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Wow. Okay I'm only 15. But I'm totally against abortion. My theory is, if you big enough to lay down, open your legs, and make the baby, then you're big enough to carry it for 9 months. Now I'm not saying she has to keep it, because if she feels she's not ready then that's probably true. Let her give it up for adoption. But there's absolutely no reason to kill an innocent baby, it's not the child's fault. But for real, if you really want to get through to her, just be like, " Could you really go through life knowing that you held the life of your baby in your hands, and you decided to kill it." My mom tried that on my sister, who was about to have an abortion, and that brought her out of it. Don't yell at her though, she's only going to get pissed and do the opposite of whatever you say.
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15/f
Everybody has their own privacy limits.
My mom and my dad both sneak on my computer and look at what i do!
So does my brother.
My youtube account has this really big love speach and i poured my heart out in it. I like to keep myself annoymous and i dont like anyone to know who i am. My parents looked at my whole youtube account and theyre always asking me if they an use my computer.
I have no problem with that, but its not like i do anything bad.
Its just like your parents looking at your diary you know?
It feels really uncomfortable.
I have a boyfriend named dannis (well call him that for now)
They dont allow me to have a boyfriend (which brings me to my next subject)
I dont see what the big deal in having a boyfriend is, i really dont. We love eachother, and there is nothing wrong with that.
And trust me, before i start a relationship i make sure we are both ready.
I am also a good girl, i dont do anything stupid, and i pick the right guys.
And my parents know it.
They invade my privacy BEYOND REASON.
I understand some small things, but this is going way WAY too far.
They asked to check their email and i come in and their looking at my youtube account??!
Not only did they lie, but they are invading my pricacy.
I feel so hurt and betrayed.
I hate lying to my parents and thats what i had to do.
Otherwise, they wont let me see my boyfriend anymore.
Love really REALLY hurts.
I dont want oppinions, or facts.
I need advice.
Please. (link)
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Wow this sounds firmiliar. Sits your parents down. Ask them, "Do I give you any reason to not trust me? Do I ever really get into any kind of trouble?" Once you do that, just explain everything to them. Tell them that you're 15 and deserve a little privacy. If your not doing anything suspicious then what's the need to check up on you all the time. As for the boyfriend thing goes, try talkin to them about letting you have on, but don't tell them you already have one, cause that'll make things so much worse. As for your brother going through your stuff, tell your parents that is rediculous and there's no reason for him to be anywhere near your business... hopes this helps.
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14/ female.
okayyyy, so me and my friend like six months ago smoked a blunt at my house and took pictures doing it.. i know dumb idea, lol. so yesterday she saw them on her photobucket and decided to put them on her myspace. well, my brother has her as a friend and he saw the pics of me and her, and he copied the pic and sent it to my mom!
so my mom told my dad to loook at my friends myspace, but me and her had deleted it, but we didnt notice it was on her album cover, soooooooo we got screwed.
my mom had a talk with me and told me that she was upset and hurt that i did that but that she wasnt mad, but i did have to be grounded. ):
it wouldnt bother me much to be grounded but at the moment it does, cause the guy i like is gonna leave to Jersy in 8 days, and i wanna see him before he leaves, and now since im grounded idk how im gonna do that.
so, can you help?
how can i get my parents to unground me asap?!
and/or how can i do it to see this guy before he leaves even if im grounded?!
thanks so much!!!!
p.s NO im not a druggy or none of that, im a goooood students and i behave very well (: (link)
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Wow, you sound a lot like me. I've been caught smoking cigarettes plenty of times. And man have I been grounded a lot. Just explain to your parents that you understand what you did was a mistake. Tell them teenagers try things new all the time. You tried the blunt and hated it. Atleast your not out having sex, or killing people, doing drugs, drinking, or any of that stuff. If their the least bit understanding, then you'll be off the hook in no time. If that doesn't work then if there's any way this guy can come to your house, ask your parents if they can make this acception because he's going on vacation.
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