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I am married been mrried 6 years (this September makes 7)
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SORRY THIS IS SO LONG!im 14 and when i was born my mom put me into a foster home(couldnt take care of me)(i have 9 blood brothers/sisters) and when i was 4 i was adopted and given to a great family.the problem is the adoption people said that they lost the photo album with my mom/grandma/and me in it.my foster mom had baby pictures of me but when i left she wouldnt give me any of them because she was mad that she couldnt keep me(leagal reasons).the youngest pict i have of myself is when i was 4 right before i was adopted(school pict) but i really want to see baby pict of me and also pict of my mom/grandma.for some reason my parents get mail from the adoption adency(its like a bill)and i was curious so i took one.i have the name of the agency(also a guy that i think might have helped with the adoption) and the adress but i tried to look it up on the internet and couldnt find anything.i dont live any where near the agency because i moved.i just really want my baby pict! you dont know how it feels not to know what your blood mom looked like or what you looked like when you where a baby.it hurts when i have school projests that requre me to bring in baby pict and im the only one without any!please help if you can! (link)
I feel for you I do not know how this feels but perhaps I can help maybe a letter saying exactly what you said here to the foster parents would break the ice let them know how it feels like you said with your school projects etc... ask them if they would do you the favor of perhaps making copies on their computer or the locl walmart and just mailing you copies even email them to you. Make sure you let them know your feelings dnt get rude or anything that wont help. my thougts will be with you hope it helps. Good Luck


My boyfriend and I just bought a new home and we had a housewarming party over the weekend. We had a friend named john and a niehgbor we never met before hanging out touching, groping, problem is they are both married. His wife was at home with the kids, and he went to the neighbors house and slept with her. My boyfriend and I were stunned. He has been married for 10 years and his wife is sweet and pretty, neighbor girl 25, he is 38 and she is UGHHH! What do I do if I am talking to his wife in the future?? He is a dog and I am digusted. To tell or not to tell?? By the way he was pretty sober and never mentioned anything about marriage problems in the past. My man and he just went to vegas a few weeks ago and my man said he was well behaved.. what gives?? are men this disgusting after all? (link)
Yes men are disgusting and filthy but women can be also have seen a few of both in my day.
heres the advice ask yourself these questions
1. How close are you with the wife
2. Can you talk to the wife about anything?
3. If bf went to Vegas with him they must be close can BF maybe talk to the hubby?
4. The couple could be swingers and have an open relationship also (yes there are actually people in the world like this)
5. Would you want to know?
Me personally if I am a close friend I would say something escpecially to the husband he did the deed or send an anonomous letter busting him and last but not least at least you found out what kind of neighbor you have now you know to watch her around your man maybe this was a heads up notice to you :-)




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