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E-mail: jenn-hansen@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: DeWitt, IA
Occupation: Nanny
Age: 20
MSN: jenn-hansen
Member Since: December 19, 2006
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Okay, I know that just about everyone on this site (or atleast the girls) has at one point thought about what to name their kids one day, so I need your help. I need boy & girl name suggestions middle names would be helpful too. Thankyou guyss I appreciate it. (link)
Caleb Jamison is one of my favorites for a boy...and Jackson James.

Olivia Jordan for girls, and Isabella Grace

Hope this helps.

Jenn


I am only 6wks preg. with my 2nd child, with my 1st I was so sick, adn didn't show until 6months or so. with this one, I am already pudging in my tummy, and you can tell. Is this because I am so little, to is it normal? Its so weird I figured it would be like my 1st pregnancy. PLEASE HELP ME (link)
Like others said before, every pregnancy is different. But I would say that you are more aware of wht pregnancy is like so you recognized the symptoms sooner. This is why it may seem as if you are bigger. I hope this helps.

Jenn


I'm 26 yr old male and my brother passed away a few years ago, leaving his son who is now 12. I'm am still very close to my nephew. I talk to him on the phone alot, email with him, etc. His mom is a terrible mom, who happens to have 2 other kids from 2 other men and wastes the social security money from my brother on cigarettes, alcohol, and frivilous items. She pays no attention to the boy and he stays with his grandma most nights because she doesnt wake him up in time for him to go go school. I'm afraid my nephew might soon turn to drugs, alcohol, etc. I've also noticed quite a lack of self esteem. I know that he has had 'girlfriends' but have yet to see them or meet them. His friends seem to be good, but I believe Im too old to be able to judge 12-13 year olds. He needs a man in his life and everytime Im in the area he always stays with me (I live 2 hours away). I plan to move back into the area soon and feel that he may want to live with me. Heres the questions:
1. How can I help to make sure he stays on the right path until I get there? I've already had the sex, drinking, pot, and cigarette talks with him.
2. How could I approach to his mother the possibility of him living with me, which I want to happen for his sake.
3. If he were to move in with me, would it be wrong to ask for the social security that HE should be getting for my brother's death so I can start a fund for him for college, car, etc.? (link)
Okay, well...it is a very good thing that you recognize a difficult situation and want to do something about it. I don't mean to be stereotypical, but most males wouldn't do anything. So, for that, I admire you. Alright, down to the questions. I am not exactly sure how to have him stay on the right path until you get there. One of the things that I am thinking of, is relate to him on his level. For example, if he has a MySpace. Join MySpace and comment him, asking specific questions about his life. That is a way of keeping taps on him without looking like it, do you know what I mean? Just a suggestion, again, I don't know if that is an option. Second question, again tough, but I would look at whatever she is complaining about the most, for example, money problems. If that is an issue, suggest that you could have the nephew move in to relieve some of the stress. You could also go with the approach of a male figure. Showing the nephew your brother through you. You know, taking him to baseball games or something that he would have done with his father. Which, I am sure that you already do. Third question, I don't think that it would be wrong to ask for the Social Security, but she may be unwilling to give it up. Go ahead that open a saving account, or whatever, and ask her if she would be willing to contribute to the account with the social security she receives. That way she knows for certain that the money is going to her son, and for his future. Not saying that you would use it for thing else. I hope that this is helpful, you are in a difficult position. Let me know how things work out.

Jenn


so here's the deal....... i really want a myspace! yes i know people...... "myspace is stupid. its so out of style!" but you know what i really want one. all my friends have it. Im not stupid! i know not to accept anyone as my friend unless i know them. I know not 2 put any personal information or pictures of myself! im a very good girl! and safe. i dont drink or anything. None of my friends drink and they're parents are more strict than mine! and i want one to talk to all my friends! espcially since vacation is coming up! And another thing is that i have a cousin that doesn't really talk to me because we never see each other. WHen we do see each other its small but online we talked alot on my friends myspace! and i liked it! he's my only cousin on that side of the family that i can tell eveything too especially right now ............... so i know im old enough and im smart! do you think its right for my parents to keep me away????? (link)
As long as you are careful, I see nothing wrong with MySpace. Maybe your parents would be more comfortable if you showed them what MySpace was really like. For example, help them to set up profiles...that way they feel included and are able to "check up" on you when they need. But, I would also suggest to you to set the comment option to...approve before posting. That way you still have some privacy. I hope that this helps.

Jenn




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