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I really want to become and actor...but I haven't seen any agents or anything...I might want to do The Starlet or something or hopefully, someone will discover me because I really want this...does anyone know what you have to do to be an actress...besides memorize lines? Also, I need to know how to cry on cue..I rate..

Well , to be an actress , you have to be confident of yourself , and you have to really get into the role.This means not laughing during your audition or smiling when you're not supposed to . This shows the people who are watching you audition that you are serious about acting . Before acting/auditioning give yourself at least five minutes to calm down/hype up ( depending on what role you are doing ) . If you need to be energetic and bouncy / whatever on stage , walk around a room a couple of times , from your usual walking speed , to a faster walking speed , to a slower one and then back to the faster one and then to the fastest you can walk . This should get your energy up .If you are playing one of those sad roles where you have to cry , sit down in a quiet corner and think about what the character you are playing just when through . ( my best friend is DEAD ! all because ___ didn't help . He could have saved her , but he chose to take the money instead . He's a murderer etc . ) IF you can't cry just by thinking about that , then practice crying on a daily basis . ( i did this everyday for about two weeks before my performance ) . Just make the tears well up in your eyes , by thinking of something sad or hurtful . After a few times, you should be able to cry without even thinking much about why you should be crying .
remember ,reach for the stars* ,
Gods bless ,
*wondering*

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My sister was raped and killed about a year ago ( we havent found out who it is yet but they're still looking)and I lately I have been see her well her ghost and she always says some thing but I cant hear her like she just moves her lips and I want to tell my mom but I'm afriad she will put me in some kind a hospital or something but about a week ago my sister came back and she made me fallow her some how I mean she walked through the wall and I just had to fallow her and when I did it I found an old beat down house and I really really wont to show it to some one because I think it might be the guy that killed her

I believe you really did see your sister . things like this happens when you're experiencing a particularly strong emotion . Were you upset that day or thinking about her ? My best friend died when i was about 8 . Some scary freak had kidnapped and mutiliated her in a sick fashion and stuffed her into a garbage bag , leaving her body to decay . This is one of the most intense memories i've ever had , and sometimes i still get nightmares . Thankfully , her body was found and identified , the killer was caught , and he's now in jail . not long before the killer was found , i remember her appearing to me , crying , her body bruised ,cut ,clothing torn , i still see her sometimes , but now she's happy . how do you see your sister ? does she look like how she did before or how she looked liked when she died . Next time you see her , don't hesitate to follow, but note down how she appears to you , when she appears to you , and what she looks like . These are vital clues . Maybe you should spy on the house to see who goes there , and perhaps follow him around , see how he acts around girls . And see what your sister does , what she tells you to do .Do not be afraid , she will guide you . Try to talk to her sometimes , i'm sure she might try to tell you something again . call out to her , will her to come to you , to help you solve her murder . clear your mind and focus only on your sister , do not hesistate or be afraid and she will come .

i wish you all the best for this mystery ,
trust in her .

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Im a really big guy. Im 7 feet tall, im 450lbs. My questions is, why is it that girls just want to be friends with me. They dont want to think about anything more than a friendship. I thought girls didnt care as much for looks as guys. Big guys need loving too.

wow - ur really tall . i guess many girls feel uncomfortable with you as they might be a lot shorter than you , and hence may feel a little intimidated . i mean , i don't know about other pple , but i for one , am about 5'2 tall , and get quite freaked out when uber tall guys like 6 feet over or whatever try to flirt with me .

ESPECIALLY when they do they whole thing when they spot me leaning against some wall and they stand in front of me and lean towards the wall , and put both their arms on either side of me and lean down , so they are only a few inches taller . eeeek . makes me feel cornered .
so i don;t lean against walls anymore .

my advice for you : find a nice tall model like girl , like 6 feet tall or more , and ask her out . trust me , as long as you are pretty hot , she wouldn't mind . girls like that like guys a lot taller than them .

oh yeah , and go work out , if you haven't been . work towards having a good body .

good luck --- i'm sure you'll have no problem =)

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Ok, i'm not sure if thats how u spell it but still.....okay i sweat. and i dont mean a little i mean a lot! i'm female by the way. so all my real cute lil shirts i cant wear b/c i sweat so much it shows wet spots underneath my arms (and only there, not my hands or anything like that) my parents refuse to take me to the doctor. I've tried powder, anti*persprent, and al the specail deoderants!! Does guys deoderant work better, if so what kind? and do u have any ideas on what i can do? thanks so much!

use perspireX !!!! it deactivates your sweat thingy from working , so you won't sweat at all !! Go to a search engine and search for it .

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