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Ok another thing with my mom. Last year my Aunt Susie (87 years old - one of my moms sisters) came to stay with us for another aunts 90 birthday bash. As I told you I buy purses for $1.49 to $1.99 that look like $60 or more (strangers tell me they love the purses and cannot believe that I only spent $1.49 to $1.99). My mom said to me; Why dont you give one to your aunt; which I did. But this year I started to think about it and I got mad reason being she was being to free with my possessions. So tonight I confronted her about what she did a year ago (I know it was the past but it still bothered me). And she said; well if I had an 87 year old dying aunt I wouldnt hesitate to give her a purse that I had: I then said to my mom that is her not me. BUT I AM STILL ANGRY BECAUSE I DONT THINK SHE REALIZES THAT I BROUGHT 7 OF EACH COLOR BECAUSE THEY WERE INEXPENSIVE AND WILL LAST ME A LIFE TIME AND THEY ARE CLOSEOUTS AND I CAN NEVER GET THEM AGAIN. I keep thinking how dare she offer my possessions to anyone. It should come from me. I asked her what if Aunt Susie could come down again I am afraid you would do the same thing and she said that she would not knowing how I feel. MY QUESTION: Am I overreacting. (I am very close to all my aunts/auncles and cousins on both my moms and dads side.). (link)
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No, I don't think that you're overreacting. You can feel however you want, because it's your property. I mean what does an 87 year old woman need with a purse?
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what are all of the seven gateways to hell? ive tried to look it up on the internet but i couldnt understand it ((ik im dumb lol)) can some one send me links to websites about them or just tell me thanx! (link)
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The 7 gateways to hell are several different areas on Earth where people report seeing the Devil, or Satan, exploring the Earth in that exact place and the surronding area. All of the seven spots are not known, but some people suspect that one of the sacred places is in Kansas. It's located in a cemetary called Stull Cemetary, people have reported seeing the Devil arising from the ground, onto the Earth. One clue to add to this myth is that the last 3 digits of the zip code for the cemetary are 666. But don't be afraid, there is no proff of all of these legends, maybe the place is just haunted by the damned or just plain creepy. I hope this helps with your dilemma.
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How do I NOT care what my 80 year old mom thinks about what I do, buy, etc. and just do what I want, buy, etc. You see what tends to happen I get angry at her for insisting her way is better and then I say to myself; how dare you and in addition I build up a whole scenario in mind about what type of conversation would take place if I confronted her on the issues she makes comments about which gets us into a fight. Here are some things she does: (1) makes comments on the herbs I take (you see she doesnt believe in taking any type of supplements; (2) Gives me contradictory messages on the purses (they cost $1.49 but look $80) and jewelry (cost $1.49 but look around $40) I buy at the 99 cent store - she tells me that she loves the jewelry and purses I buy but makes comments on them as well; (3) I was going to buy reciprocal presents (frames) for three coworkers and she put down the fact that I was going to buy them at the 99 cent store. (I will elaborate on this on a new question. HELP. As I said how do I not care, not get angry, not say how dare you, etc. (link)
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I don't think that you should care what your mother says, because she has her own opinion and you have yours. I'm not saying just lose all of your respect for her, but I am saying that since you even said that you don't care what people say about you, why should you care what she thinks. Just don't yell at her, stay calm, explain to her that it's yours and you like it, plus why does she even care if she doesn't have to wear it/use it? Remember to stay true to yourself and don't change for anyone. I hope all goes well with you and your mother.
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