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Q: how much of your butt are boy shorts (underwear) supposed to cover?

because i got a few pairs but theyre kind of shortish
and if i wear them to my boyfriends house and his hands sort of err wander i dont want him to be like wtf..or do guys like that?

They're suppose to cover not even half. They like it. Almost every guy that I know has said they would prefer a girl in boyshorts than a thong. Don't worry about it, I'm sure he'll love it. Hope helped. =]

Q: if i were to get a tongue ring, how easy would it be to hide? on a scale of 1 - 10

i have mine done. I'd say about a 4.

Q: hey
so this may seem like a dumb question but im wondering how to cuddle with guys. I feel like every time i lay on their sholder or chest or something im like cutting off the circulation to their arm. Im not a big girl at all, i just dont want him(or me) to feel uncomfortable.
help please! xoxo

If you were cutting off thier circulation or they weren't comfortable, they'd move or do something to let you know. Just relax. If you feel like you are making them uncoforable or if you are uncomfortable, just move so that you are and chances are that he'll get comfortable too. Try not to think about it when you're cuddling with someone. If you think about it, it will stick in your mind and you'll try too hard and it will get uncomfortable. Like I said before, relax. If you relax, it'll come naturally. Or even simply ask him "Are you comfortable?" or "Am I hurting you at all?". Whats the worst that could happen when you ask him that? It's not like he's going to get mad at you or anything. He'll plainly say yes or no. If he says no, move a little. Hope I helped. =]

Q: 14/f

I'm only 5ft3 so I could never be a catwalk model, but people always tell me I have the face of a model, and that my eyes could be used on certain adverts advertising eye makeup and stuff.

I figured that if I could do some modelling, it would be a good experience and why not?

Also, it would be good to have some extra money from it.

But I'd like to know, what type of face do you need to have to be a model?

And what type of things can I model for where I don't need to be tall and straight up and down (like most catwalk models are)?

And just generally qualities that would help me, and how I should go about trying to get some modelling?

Thanks, xxx

I use to do modeling, and it is a good experience. All models aren't 6 foot 2. Look at Kate Moss. Most face models have high cheekbones, not all of them though. Agents and companies are always looking for new faces to put on advertisements. It's good to have a variety. You don't need to be tall to model for print work. Magazines and catalogs have short people too. I mean, sure, it's a plus to be tall in the moseling world, but it's not a necesity. Don't go to Barbizon. They take more money than they pay you. Research some local agencies and have a meeting with the ones you might like to work for. Don't just jump into an agency and not know thier background. When you have meetings, be sure to act like yourself, they don't want a girl with no personality, they want a girl whos personality will stand out in a picture. Don't dress all fancy either. Go in there in a nice pair of jeans and a nice shirt. Don't go all out, show who you are by what you wear. Don't expect results and 10 jobs at first either. It takes time to get your face out there. I hopes I helped you out. Good luck with the modeling!