IM simply me despite being young i know most struggles there are in life ... except child birth but i can relate ... im easy going ,honest , loving respectful and WISE
im a debater ! um ima song writer and poet feel free to question me im doing a double major of law and physcology watch out america lol
dont underestimate me i can do ny thing
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I am dealing with a huge weigh on my shoulders. Last year I went through the hardest time of my life. I had been with my ex-boyfriend on and off for almost a year and a half. He moved away for school but we hook up when he would come home. I ended up pregnant and he made me feel like there was no way to keep the baby. I was in a horrible state with my hormones running wild and all the added stress of school. I was 2 months away from receiving degree. But I knew it was going against everything I believe in.
I feel totally depressed. Its been a year and I still have the pregnancy weight, I feel totally guilty for what I did. It kills me inside to think about what I did. I have no one to talk to because its such a sensitive issue. My friends haven't been through this and I dont want to dwell my issues on them. I lost all my confidence i feel fat and ugly because of what I did. I dont know what to do anymore. I feel totally alone :*( (link)
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fortunaly your not lone ... many young girls go threw the same thing have u looked for local support groups ... yes you will go threw a lot of emotional pain and stress abortions are not natural and they take time to heal .. but what you can do in the mean times is atempt to eat more foods with anti -oxidents to filter out bad toxins , drikng green tea and eat more fruit .. baby weight wont go away ,but with the littlest exersise as walking daily will help .. the reason behind the slow weight loss is due to depresion .. have you tryed takiing to a doctor a hormone imballence might be the problem .. as for the internal pain thats a scare .. yes time heals all wonds the worse thing you can do is isolate your self ... remember humans come in all shapes and sizes in Gods eyes your still beautyful
i can asure you must have atleast five tallents
take some personal time to write them down
you need to start buliding confidence
its going to be hard .. you have to gain the streinths to look your self in the eye
begin in the mirror every night and every morining stare at your helf repeating " i am a worthy Human , kind, loving , deserving and will ing to find my self i am a child of God and my parents I love me for me I love me for me " you have to slowly buld up confidence and that takes time .. as long as your on earth youll never be alone!!!!! well u an im me @ metal_beauty_4_life@yahoo.com i have more if i have helped you any
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