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thanks for the kind word it was nice of you , these thoughts come and go i was just havin a bad day the day i wrote ,i just wanted to say thanks for for being so nice and to take care much love
rob

Any time! I really hope things are improving for you and everything.

You can make it through anything! Just message me if you ever need anything. (:

XOXO
KAT.

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Okay, well i have been doing alot of reasearch. And lately, i know that i need a therapist. I know i have a problem. A mental problem. But the problem is...I am only 13 in a half years old! What therapist is gonna wanna help a teen who porbably thinks its just "Boy Troubles" or something?! And i cant tell my family. They wont take me...becuase they dont have enough money..and because they dont know how i feel. i normally hide my emotions. They think im fine. And i need help a.s.a.p or im afriad things might get worse!

please help me! any advice will do!
Thank you sooooooooo much!
- love Nikki (:

If you feel you have a serious problem that's getting in the way of your normal life/happiness/etc., they will take you seriously if they're professional at all. If you can't talk to your parents at all, maybe try talking to a teacher or guidance counselor about getting outside therapy?

Your insurance should cover therapy, even if you're on Chip or something, as long as you don't miss any sessions. If you have to, just look up local therapists/psychologists in your area, call, and ask about your situation. I'm sure they'd be more than willing to help you out. It's very responsible of you to admit that you need help in something.

However, if this dosen't seem to work for you for some reason (it should), talk to your parents. It might be embarassing or scary, but whatever's going on, I'm sure they can help. And if they can't, they'll get you to the proper place where you'll be able to get help.

If all else fails, I'd recommend to talk to the school counselor. They're licensed therapists, and they're really nice, though no one really tends to go to them anymore. They can help more than you think.

It'll all be okay, and if you ever need help, talk to a friend, parent, stranger, etc.

XOXO
KAT.

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A question just popped in my head and I was wondering can a tampon pop your cherry because I think I popped mine but I'm not sure.

Yep, it definitely can. Other activities such as horseback riding, bike riding, stretching a lot, and masterbation can also cause your hymen to break.

This is actually a pretty common way for this to happen to girls, it's just usually overlooked, because they're assuming they're just going through their periods.

XOXO
KAT.

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is it normal for a 13 year old guy(me) to have never been in a fight, be really sensitive(cry when im angry and when im pissed off/annoyed) and just weird things like that

It's definitely normal! It's most likely that most of your hormones are kicking in at this point. You're getting older and things are different, as well. It's okay to be sensitive, and you'll be able to cope better with everything over time.
Also, I'd like to say, it seems like a good thing that you're being sensitive rather than lashing out and fighting. Ladies are generally bothered by violence. Just make sure you NEVER take your emotions out on yourself by hurting yourself or anything. It'll all settle out over time, and no worries, this is all pretty normal, even if it dosen't seem like the other guys are going through the same thing!

XOXO
KAT.

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can you type on the computer when you're drunk or high?

Assuming you can perform most usual daily functions (such as walking, dialing a phone, using remote control), I'm sure you could.
I suppose it only depends on quite how drunk/high you actually are? But if you're to the point where you can't actually TYPE, it may be a warning sign that something's wrong..


XOXO
KAT.

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