Hello I am here to give you support and advice. I try my best to give you both positive and realistic answers to your questions.
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Not feeling sorry for myself so don't say it. I'm just tired of my terrible life and I just want it done, sooner the better.I'm 44 and have been in 2 major relationships in my life. One was my x wife, we were married for 22 years, in the end she ran off with a married man. Must have been me why she did it. The 2nd was the love of my life and we did love each other, she lives in Tucson, same as myself.we each had problems as does everyone, working threw our issues together an our own we would work threw together. We liked being together and we did most everything togetherwe loved it . In the end she treated me like a nobody, and seemed to blame me for everything,ok I figured we could work threw this also as we loved each other so much. Nope it was easier to break it off with me and go with someone else. I'm dead inside and my mind needs shut off, I think about her everyday txt with her on occasion. Yes I know ur going to say no contact,but I can't, I want her so much and miss her bad. My family and friends all say screw her and they hate her for how she hurts me. I can't stop thinkingof her/us and want no one but her. It's been a yr now and its the same, for me atleast. I'm done and ready to die. My life is shit and iv given up.
Shut my heart, mind, pain off, I am truly ready. (link)
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Please don't say such a thing. Death is not the answer. yes I understand all you want is to be loved, and respected. You're worth that, you deserve better. The problem is you don't feel worthy enough. You are settling for less. You are hurting yourself every time you text her and you know it. You need to know your worth. You seem like a highly intelligent, sweet, caring man. Any good woman would cherish You. Don't give up. Get rid of the negative people in your life. You don't need a woman to be happy. Find your happiness, whatever that may be, and you will find the one. Just find your happiness okay?
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First of all thank you for whom is reading this. I go to school part time and just got a new job. I'm trying to figure out myself and just deleted my Facebook because I feel as if it is a distraction. I feel empty, and it's normally when I'm not talking to a guy. I don't know why I feel this way. My last two boyfriends started as one night stands. One lasted a year, the other one two years. I can't seem to take a relationship slow either. Is it just my hormones? I feel like it's wrong to have sex with multiple people but lately I've been wanting to. Most of my friends are guys as well. I use to have an alcoholic problem but I've been a lot better. I just don't understand why I'm so addicted to guys. (link)
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You aren't addicted to guys, you are addicted to the feeling of being wanted by a guy. This could have happened by a lack of a father figure in your life. You have to look at the deeper reason why this is happening. What you have to learn is, you should be happy with life even without a man in your life. A man should not be the only thing that makes you happy. Learn to be independent and know that someday the right man will walk into your life and he won't be asking for sex, he will be asking for love. Be confident and strong. Good luck!:)
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Can anybody kill me? Seriously...
20 years old from greece
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Think about what u just asked. Your on this earth for a reason. You have purpose. Tour meant to do something big. You have to live to accomplish this. Your a brilliant person. There is at least someone who loves and cares about you.
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