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this might be kind of long but here it goes...
im one of those people who think alot and over analyse things allllll the time and it drives me crazy! the worst is when someone says something to me and i just keep thinking about it in a what if what if what if way. like for example last year before homecoming i was talking to my friend and i was like gosh i need a date who's taller than me and isnt an idiot. so she says why dont you go with (insert name here)?" then i thought about it alot and i started to like him! it always happens, and the latest thing is in one of my classes i was talking to one of my guy friends and this girl says to me: dude you to need to go out already! now for the past 24 hours or so all ive been thinking about is what if we went out? do i like him? does he like me? and it wont stop! i cant just stop thinking, how do you tell yourself, "hey no more thinking!" that doesnt make any sense? it even happens when im sleeping, ill have like 4 different dreams in one night about whatever is bugging me and then when i wake up im exausted!i dont just think about like guys and stuff or anything its school too, im really good at math because i think so much like dont even bother me with the calculator or a formula, i just figure it out by myself. i dont know what to do! but my constant thinking is driving me crazy! please help!!!! (link)
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Hey!!! Same here!
My friends always tell me that I'm very analytical. Like, everything has to make sense to me and stuff... My mind works ALL THE TIME, 24/7.
Then I realized that I think waaay too much and I need to ease a lil' bit.
You need to go with the flow sometimes. Don't try to control everything because everyhting is not under your control. Let things happen the way they are meant to happen.
Don't analyze too much because you might miss the little things(which you think are not important) in life because of your critical mind.
Try out something where you can pour all your thoughts and work your mind off. I'm a writer so I pour my thoughts into my stories, articles and scripts. I also noticed that after writing, my mind gets exhausted that I'm too tired and too lazy to think!!!
Find something where you can tire, exhaust, and work your mind off! Trust me, it works. ;)
Hope I helped you a lil' bit!
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Sometimes when im alone in my room i will talk to myself..like its hard to explain but i talk to myself out loud..except i answer myself too..its like i work myself thru my problems by talking to myself..does anyone else do this? or is there something wrong with me? i feel stupid for doing it and if anyone were to ever hear me i would die but is it okay to do this? (link)
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It's Perfectly okay to talk to yourself from time to time especially when you feel down, have no one to talk to, or if you can't share your problems with other people.
It's true that almost all--no, make that All people do that from time to time because it(talking to yourself) serves as an outlet for all the stress that you have.
Hope I helped you a lil' bit!
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It's so weird, for some reason tonight, I'm so nervous, I can't eat, I can't sit still, and I keep on thinking about what's going to happen at school tomorrow.
The problem is, I have n-o-t-h-i-n-g to be nervous about.
Any advice on how to
a.) calm myself
b.) figure out why I'm so tense/nervous
Thanks! (link)
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You know what? I can actually relate to your prob....
I used to be a worrywart before, too!!!!
But dearie, don't waste your time and energy thinking and worrying about the UNKNOWN. Don't be such a paranoid because you might lose focus on the things that you should Really be worrying about.
Why don't you try out a new hobby? Or watch a new movie? That way, you'd forget about all your "worries of the unknown".
Try this one, too(it might help you a lil' bit cuz it helped me before) : every night, when you take a last glance of yourself in the mirror before going to sleep, tell yourself, "Stop worrying (insert your name here)! Nothing wrong's gonna happen! Everything.Will.Be.Fine." Do this in the morning, too. You'll see good results after a few days, trust me.
Hope I helped you a lil' bit!
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