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I was wondering if anyone knew anything about depression, or manic depressive disorder, or what not.
I just recently started thinking i might be have depression, or some other mental disorder. After looking it up online, I think I might.
my mom takes medication, but i never knew what for, and when i asked my dad he said it was so she could "cope with life". So i'm pretty sure she has depression. And i was reading that it might be genetic.
Anyways, what i want to know is what do i do about it?
ive always wondered if I should go to a therapist just because i always have trouble dealing with my emotions.
and after looking it up, i think i might be bipolar or depressed.
I dont wanna say anything to my parents, because... i dont know. I guess its just that i'm their "good child" both my brothers are kinda bad, and i'm the ""perfect"" one that gets good grades, and doesnt have problems and things like that.
There really aren't any other adults in my life that i trust. and my friends, well i dont think i would want to tell anyone this really.
so, yea. i'm just not sure what to do. or if i should just ignore it.
i'm not thinking about sucicide or anything. so thats not an issue.
Sorry this is SO long... (link)
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Depression is a chemical inbalance....it's natural to happen to everyone at least once or twice in their lives. It might also have to do with your amount of stress right now. I can tell you a few things that might help. Venting...letting anger out. If something is bothering you, let it out...not in a negative way that can cause more back to you, but in a relieving manner...Like maybe picking up a sport of something extracurricular...ya know?
It can be generic...but you can kick it.
Let me know how it goes.
XO
Woven!*
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sorry if its long but i rate high
ok about 2 nights ago, i had a dream that really scared the hell out of me. I dont know what it means so i was hoping someone here could help me. I dreamt that i was picking up my little brother from school with my mom. We were on the end of my block when i looked behind me and there was a man running towards us with a knife in his hand, i could see the blade of the knife in great detail, it was pointy and very jagged. After a minute i realized he was running towards me becuase he was looking right at my eyes. He was wearign a black t-shirt and wasnt skinny but not fat, a little heavyset. He looked hispanic sort of. I couldnt move though, or at least i didnt move. He finally reached us and then instead of stabbing me right away, he asked my mother if it would be better to stab me in my heart or in my leg. He said something about "wanting to hit a major artery so i could die and wouldnt be able to tell the police". it was similar to that. I hid behind my mom and waited for her response and was begging in my mind for her to say the leg. She said leg after what seemed to be a few minutes and then said "why dont you come to my house so we could get you something to drink" i knew she wanted to call the police. So she tried to take the man by the hand to take him to my house, and the knife changed. It now had a reddish handle and a blade that resembled to me a corkscrew. He strugled with my mother and i ran up to opposite block, towards my friends house. Then i woke up. Since I saw the man running across the street, my little brother seemed to be gone in the dream. He wasnt really involved with anything and i dont remember seeing him. What could this dream mean? Im 13/f if that helps. Please help me. Ill rate high for good answers. ♥ (link)
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Not all dreams mean something, you could just look at it plain...and see that maybe the knife is a fear, the man that was running at you is something you're afraid of...something that you never want to happen. You're mom is your guardian in real life and the dream, but instead of protecting you she still choose the leg...which means maybe you feel she might of let you down once or twice. You're brother might of just repersented home...family, belonging..ya never know...they don't always have to have long hard explanations...take it for what it's worth.
Xo
!Woven*
Hope I helped, let me know
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I am 14 and all my friends are the same age. (we are not punk rock or emo people, just so you know). A lot of my friends tell me sad things or problems in their lives. (boyfriend problems, cutter problems, ect.). Whenever I hear about this stuff I usually don't care much, it's sadly just not in my character. But when I get home I'll do all the normal stuff I normally do, but I'll end up crying for no reason. I'll feel horrible inside but I won't know why.
So what my question is: How can I make my enviorment less negative other than getting new friends? I can't tell them that they can't tell me their problems. If I did then they would be keeping their problems inside them, and that would be giving my depression problem to them. (link)
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Sweetie...there are plenty of things to do. Listen to their problems...if you don't care about their problems then you dont care about them. Problems come with everyone no matter their shape size whatever...issues occur. Let them know that each problem has a different solution, let them know that if they ever need you to come to you...but don't just not care.
Now...to answer the question, let them know that their problems are a little over bearing on the ones you have going on. Simply explain that you need a break...kind of like a rest time to gather yourself back up. Let them know what's been going on, I mean the crying and feeling bad thing afterwards. Just be open and honest, like their being...but choose your battles wisely. You can tell when some one is telling you a huge story, and when they really have a problem.
XO
Woven~
I hope I helped.
Let me know how it turns out
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I a suffering from:
Chronic depression, social anxiety disorder, generalized anxiety disorder, panic attacks, an eating disorder, obsessive complusive disorder, and anger/low self worth problems. I don't see how I am still living. Could any illness occur from all these, I have heard you can deveop tumors and other various things from so many mental illnesses? (link)
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You are already ill from them. You can become overly depressed...which can cause more stress, that can cause Stomach Ulcers, you can have kidney failure, heart attacks from the panic attacks, and a lot more. You need to see a psychologist.
*Woven*
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Is it normal for a 13-year-old girl to masterbate, or is it just really sick-o for my age? Omg, I'm sooooo embarassed and I think I'm the only one in my grade who does. I feel like such a perv., but I can't help it. I have to cuz it feels so good. So I want to know is, is this unusual for a girl my age? Or something to feel guilty about? (link)
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Yes, it is normally. I promise you you are not the only one in your grade that does it. Some girls and or guys might play it off like they don't or that it is gross...but more then likely they have tried it. If it helps you any...I started at 8. If it feels good, which it does then don't stop because you think you're the only one doing it. You're not. I promise
*WovenLynx*
Hope I helped
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