Call MeSKY
i;m 16 and i live in New York, The reason i decided to give out advice because i have been through alot in my life,
-I grew up without a father,
-dealt with abuse up till recently,
-dealt with many mental issues,
-dealt with death in a close knit family,
-dealt with disease.
-Jerk Boyfriends
-Sex issues
-Step Sisters
I've been through a lot, but it only made me stronger. I know what it feels like to be down, to be lower than you've ever been before, Sometimes you just need someone, even if you don't know this person just to talk too. When friends aren't as supportive as they should be, and parents aren't there. Thats why I'm here. I'm not perfect with advice but i will tell you straight up and do my best to help. No matter how big or small a problem is. I will be as open as i possibly can, and maybe just maybe( No promises though) i will help. Just know that talking is a good way to solve any problem..
-Sky-
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ok i tried out for cheerleading and i didnt make it and im kinda mad at the girls that did. i know i shouldnt but im depressed and im mad at the girls that did make it. how do i get over this? (link)
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I recently tried out for varsity softball,
i worked my butt off and i didn't make it,
I was so upset for days and days but i knew i couldn't change no matter how bad i wanted to play i knew i couldn't.
You just need to give yourself time to get over it,
Its a bad feeling, Believe me i know it is.
May i suggest your favorite ice cream, and a good movie with a good friend,
Just remember even thought you may of not succeeded at this, this time.
You will succeed in many other things.
Perhaps you should practice and try out next year.
It'll get better I promise
-Sky-
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15/f
my boyfriend (17/m)has been fighting with me a lot lately and much of it is harsh. today was killer. it got to the point where he called me a dumbass and the most immature person that he knows, and that he's been going out with me for the past 10 months, because i have "the potential to be a good girlfriend." he tells me that i act like a spoiled little kid and need to grow up and stop being so immature.
this kind of fight happens too often. it has lead me to vodka. i can mix it with cranberry juice to cover the smell and my parents never notice that its gone so i can get away with it. i drink it because its the only thing that can get rid of my saddness. i dont want to be an alcoholic. i realize that i need help.
what can i do? what should i do?
please help me.
i need it.
and also,
i need a friend. (link)
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Your boyfriend sounds like a boyfriend i use to have,
I use the word use because i realized it was a unhealthy situation.
No one especially your boyfriend should belittle you like that.
You need to have a talk with him,
Drinking is not the answer, and it never is.It only destroys people. and i should know i know maybe alcoholics in my life.
if you continue down this road i may happen. Never drink out of sadness.
Is he really worth all the oan our having because i dont htink anyone is worth feelin bad constantly.
And im here if you need a friend.
Ive been down this road and its not easy to get off of but its possible.
-Sky-
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