I have never been called ugly, but I've also never been called beautiful. I'm not sure. I mean, I've liked guys but none of them have ever liked me back. In the 5th grade I told a guy I used to like him but don't anymore. (It wasn't true that I didn't like him, I just wanted to test the waters. I wanted ti see his reaction.) That was thhe biggest mistake of my life because after I said I didn't like him anymore, I heard him say, "Good." My mom also once told me that the only guys that would want to hit on me would be pedophiles, (I'm really short so I look like I'm 14 even though I turned 18 in February.) the sad part is that I think she might be right. The only guys that have ever "liked" me are old guys and some of the creepy guys at our school. Whenever I even try to hit on a guy they laugh in my face. I feel like I shouldn't be so down on myself and sometimes I look in the mirror I feel like the prettiest thing in the world, but other times, I look in the mirror and feel completely disgusted with how I look. Is there a way to get people to tell you the truth about how you look?
liking someone isnt all about looks. if someone only likes you cause you look good theyre not worth it and it's no way to start a healthy relationship. of course people can tell you their opinion on how you look but everyone has a different taste so one guy might think youre pretty while another one doesnt. and besides that i know a few girls who are gorgeous but still not liked because they act like complete bitches. and my boyfriend to be honest isnt the prettiest guy in the world either but i still love him for who he is because he's one of the nicest people i know :)
so dont worry you'll find the right guy and stop worrying about your looks. i used to be like that and it really brought me down!
good luck :)
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I am a slut. I will admit it. I've had sex with about 20 or so boys from my high school and I don't even know how many I've given head to. I'd had sex in the bathrooms, in the janitor's closet, and behind the school. I've skipped class to do this too. I'm really ashamed of myself and the way I dress on a day to day basis. I feel like I'm growing up and I don't want to be that type of person any more. None of the guys at school have respect for me. The girls hate me because I've slept with a lot of their boyfriends. Basically I can't get a good boyfriend who is really interested in ME because he knows we will have sex and I can't have a best friend because the girls think I'm going to steal their boyfriends or something (I don't blame them though...A LOT of guys have cheated on their girlfriends with me).
I am completely unhappy with myself and I don't know what I was thinking when I did those things. I guess I just wanted some attention because my parents are working alllll the time and I don't feel very loved or that I'm special. ANYWAY, how can I stop being such a slut? I hate it about me...I want to stop...but I just keep...screwing up, for lack of better words. Help, please? It's like, I keep thinking things like, "Yeah, maybe this guy might REALLY be into me! I need to push this forward..." but I KNOW he isn't...ugh...I feel stupid...
i agree with dottie.
just stop doing it and dress differently maybe?
you can still be stylish but not so revealing?!
& just try meeting completely new guys who dont go to your school.
cause you cant really change your image in a few days.
just stop having sex with random guys & they will realise that you've changed. same with the girls.
good luck (:
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