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I hate to say it, but -- Loneliness is getting the best of me. I want to be able to say "God is enough, all i need to be happy" or "I'm satisfied just having my family and a few close friends", but I can't, I'm not. I constantly find myself longing for the "myspace" life. Having lots of gorgeous female friends and funny male friends to do fun things with and take lots of pictures with. To have people constantly calling me. TO FEEL LOVED. This is not a question of how to make friends - go out, join a sports club, church group.. I know, I know, I know. Whatever.

I probably wouldn't be satisfied anyways. I keep longing for other peoples lives. And in a weak attempt to become them.. I get their hairdos, clothing styles, and even opinions. But (ofcourse) it doesn't work.

Help me please, I can't remember ever being satisfied. I've always hated myself, my friends, my life.

I'm lonely and I fear always feeling this way.

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I FEEL THE EXACT EXACT EXACT SAME WAY AS YOU! IDENTICAL! It was weird when i read this! i was like OMG! THAT IS EXACTLY HOW I FEEL! i was even going to ask a question about this also. But just so you know i know how you feel.

i don't really know how to give advice on this since i feel the same way as you, but i just wanted you to know that you have someone that feels the same way as you and that your not alone. But i always tell myself "how long can things be bad for? i mean things have to get good some day."

and they will but if you ever want to talk or anythng my myspace is www.myspace.com/sportsqueen

it sucks i know its the worst feeling ever

but things will get better you just have to get through with it and try not to let people get you down and stuff thats what i do.


ok i think i have an unhealthy obsession with gerard way from my chemical romance. ok all i think about is him and i mean i am 13 years old and all i think about is him. i mean my desktop is him, my screen saver is him, my aol sn is him, everything is him. i mean when i found out he was engaged i cryed for 4 hours straight (seriously) and im still so upset that he is engaged. i mean yeah i know i will never have a chance with him i just feel better knowing he is single. i just am so upset and i mean i just cant stop thinkin about him. what do i do??? (by the way plz dont say "find another crush" or something like that because it doesnt work) (link)
i know exactly how you feel
i feel the same way about tom delonge from blink 182 and angels and airwaves haha

We'll i've had my obession for like almost a year....but all i can tell you is that you don't have to stop being obessed with him, just try not to focus all your attention on him and stuff, and when you hang out with your friends hopefully you won't be so focused on him and stuff, and whenever you see a hott guy, try not to compare him to gerard haha i used to do that, but one day you will find a great guy and your obession will start to fade.

I know its not a big help but i know exactly how you feel, but just try and do alot of things that keep your mind focused off of him, haha its hard i know


hey,
i wasn't really sure where to put this one. okay, here's my problem. i have this feeling all the time where it feels like i'm in a dream, or in a memory, or i'm just not here. it's extremely hard to explain. i've talked to my doctor about it as well, but she hasn't heard of it. my friend is the only person i know that has it too. i'm actually kind of scared, because i dont' know what could happen to me next. please help! (link)
Omgosh that happens to me also! It might e because your tired at the moment or something, because that is usually what happens whe i am tired, but its nothing to be worried about, alot of my friends get that aswell, its weird.




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