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I went to college in the Philippines and I just did not know how to deal with the reality because I did not know how to speak the national language and I all my classmates made fun of me that's why I dropped out of college in the Philippines in the first place. I've also quit my jobs before that because of the reality. Now just today, I revealed the biggest secret that I've been hiding all my life to my mom and that's that I am gay. I'm beginning to think that hiding this secret all my life ate me on the inside in which I think led to the decisions I've made in life. I just couldn't deal with certain problems with people. Do you think coming out was the answer to all my problems in the past?? I feel like I've been living a lie about myself my whole entire life and I just want to know if things will get better now for me. (link)
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Yes, now follow the yellow brick road and tap your heels together 3 times and say there's no homo's no mo' there's no homo's no mo'....
Seriosly though, be yourself. If you're comfortable being closeted then be closeted. Don't try to force yourself to be something you aren't comfortable with.
Find a companion. That's what is important. Think of being gay as just a fact. All it means is that you know in advance that your future companion will be a man. That's all. And now your mom knows. That's all man. Be yourself...Be true to yourself...
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I am a slut. I will admit it. I've had sex with about 20 or so boys from my high school and I don't even know how many I've given head to. I'd had sex in the bathrooms, in the janitor's closet, and behind the school. I've skipped class to do this too. I'm really ashamed of myself and the way I dress on a day to day basis. I feel like I'm growing up and I don't want to be that type of person any more. None of the guys at school have respect for me. The girls hate me because I've slept with a lot of their boyfriends. Basically I can't get a good boyfriend who is really interested in ME because he knows we will have sex and I can't have a best friend because the girls think I'm going to steal their boyfriends or something (I don't blame them though...A LOT of guys have cheated on their girlfriends with me).
I am completely unhappy with myself and I don't know what I was thinking when I did those things. I guess I just wanted some attention because my parents are working alllll the time and I don't feel very loved or that I'm special. ANYWAY, how can I stop being such a slut? I hate it about me...I want to stop...but I just keep...screwing up, for lack of better words. Help, please? It's like, I keep thinking things like, "Yeah, maybe this guy might REALLY be into me! I need to push this forward..." but I KNOW he isn't...ugh...I feel stupid... (link)
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Look, you don't have a problem.
There is nothing wrong with you.
There might be something wrong with your behaviour and you are addressing that now.
My advice is to seek counseling.
You are not a slut, you are a sexually active human being. There's nothing wrong with sex or with having multiple partners. Just make sure you protect yourself from unwanted pregnancy and STD's.
Now make an appointment to talk to a professional counselor.
And make another appointment with your local Health Department and get checked for STD's and get some condoms.
And make some real freinds. Find some people who won't judge you by the rumours they've heard.
After all you didn't get the reputation you have alone. Why should you have to be the one who is bad?
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ok so i said it..... i am addicted to masterbating! how do i break this addiction? I do it all the time and i look forward to it so much that it seems like it it taking over my life.
please help! Help me find a way to stop masterbating so much or stop completely! Please?
if anyone can help me I thank you then! (link)
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Masterbation can be fun....
but you will go blind if you stare at the sun.
As long as you are discreet and you don't start masterbating in public I think you'll be ok.
Masterbation is an integral part of each person's life.
We all do it.
Some of us do it too much and some of us don't do it enough.
Everything falls into the category of preferences.
Of course if you just focus your energy on a hobby like music or exercise or DATING then you might find other ways to expend that sexual energy.
But never feel guilty for pleasing yourself man...
If you don't do it, then who else will...
Am I right?
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