I'm Kyler, and I'm genderqueer (both male and female). I support LGBT rights very strongly, particularly transgender rights.
I am a Buddhist Pagan, and I practice many things such as meditation and witchcraft. I enjoy helping people with spirituality-related issues.
I'm also vegan, and I love animals. When I'm older, I'm probably going to be an undercover investigator at a factory farm.
I also have a very complicated love life, so I can help with that too. :P
I love giving advice, and I'll answer any questions you have.
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I really don't like my life, I know my life is better than some others, but I am just sick and tired of it. I don't want to die, I just want to lucid dream forever. I need help! I cry almost every night about the little mistakes i have had that day. Please help me, I don't want to live in the real world anymore! I just want a little excitement, compassion, and magic if you will. BTW I am 13. (link)
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Hey there,
I feel the same way as you do, so you are not alone. If you need someone to talk to, I'm here. You can contact me at demonboi5060@gmail.com
I have done multiple things to cope with this feeling, so I'll share a couple with you.
The first thing is meditation. I have a lot of trouble with the "clear your mind and focus on your breathing" kind, but I really like guided imagery meditation and astral projection. Astral projection is really cool - it feels like you are leaving your body and traveling somewhere else. (You can find several astral projection guided meditations on YouTube.)
I also like communicating with my Spirit Guides. I usually like to use a Spellboard (that's a little bit like a Ouija board but it's designed for talking to Spirit Guides) but I also communicate with them through meditation. (You can find these on YouTube as well.)
If you have any questions or need any more advice, you can email me at demonboi5060@gmail.com or inbox me on Advicenators.
I hope things go okay for you,
Kyler
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I know this is a weird question, but I'm going to try.
How do you tell the difference between just acting like another gender and actually wanting to BE another gender? I'm a bit confused with my gender myself and am hoping to know how to tell the difference.
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Gender Identity and Gender Expression are two different things. While gender identity is your internal sense of being male, female, both, or neither, gender expression is how you express your gender.
I always felt that I had a gender identity that didn't match perfectly with my physical sex. While I was born female and enjoy doing feminine things, I don't identify as a girl. Then I learned that you didn't have to be either a boy or girl -- you can be both, or a mix of the two, or neither. After living as another gender for a while and exploring my gender identity more, I realised that I was genderfluid. That means I don't identify with any one gender, but sometimes I feel more male, and sometimes more on the feminine side, or maybe just androgynous or in between.
Mostly, I do see myself as a feminine male. That means my internal gender is usually mostly male -- but then again my gender is still fluid -- although my gender expression is more feminine.
Here are a couple questions to ask yourself:
- What gender or genders do you feel you are on the inside? Are you a boy or girl, or are you both or neither, or genderfluid like I am?
- How do you express your gender? Do you express yourself in a feminine, masculine, or androgynous way?
I hope you find out who you are eventually, good luck and I hope this helped you. :)
~ Kyler ♡
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