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Can someone please give me an intellegent answer to y people cut? It makes no sense to me. The only conclusion i have come to is mental/emotional weakness. (link)
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For some who are depressed cutting is a away to make themselves feel better. They feel like they can't control things in their life but they can control cutting and they like that they can control it, so they start but then they become addicted to it. There are many different reason people cut, and I honestly can't tell you every real reason because I've never felt that way and I've never cut before so it's hard to explain why people do things they do if you haven't experienced it yourself. One of my friends actually used to cut and I once read a book called "Cut" and that's what I've gathered to be the main reason... But nowadays it seems some people do it because it's "cool" ... lol
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I didn't say I agreed with the people that cut because it's "cool" I was just saying that for some people their only reason is they think it's cool... For some reason depression and all the effects have become a fad to some people the same as bisexuality has become cool.
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i have serius issues on depression. i mean everyday for the past month ive been down. please dont make fun of me. i cant help it. i just lost a gr8 friend/boyfriend a couple of weeks ago and i havent been happy or the same since then. i dont want to take freakin pills cause it makes me feel unhuman. it lowers my self esteem. i havent had any self esteem in over a month. everybody told me to move on and find someone else to go out with but its not that simple to move on after a heartbreak. i have changed so much in the past month. Please help me. what the heck should i do? ill do anything if it works. ill rate high and ill write super great about you if you just help me. thanks and please hurry! (link)
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Hey. I know what you're going through is really hard on you and you're probably confused about what you're feeling if you've never felt like this before. Everyone express themselves in different ways and it takes different people different amount of times to get over a heartbreak. Even if people are telling you that you should find someone else and move on, if you're not ready to move on then you DO NOT have to act like you are. If you try to act happy to make other people happy and leave your emotions bottled up inside you. it will only make tings worse. Try talking to someone you trust about how you feel. Or if you don't feel like talking to anyone about how you feel, you could try keeping a journal. Talking about how you feel or writing about it in a journal can make you feel a lot better. Of course it won't all happen right away, but as long as you're expressing yourself rather than keeping your emotions bottled up things will gradually start to seem better. If this doesn't help, you should consider talking to a psychologist. You might feel odd talking to someone you don't know about your problems but you have to understand psychologist spend years studying the mind and human behavior and it's their job to listen and try to help you the best that they can. The good thing about psychologists are they have years of experience so they know what they're talking abut and it's completely private. No one has to know about you talking to a psychologist unless you choose to tell them. You could try talking to a school counselor or have your parents take you to a psychologist outside the school. I hope you feel better soon. If you ever need anything you can E-mail me at luckierainbowstars@hotmail.com -- put the subject as "Advice" so I make sure to get back to you asap. I hope this helps. Good luck. Kristin
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No problem. Feel free to talk to me anytime. I'm not one much right now because final exams are coming up, but E-mail me and I'll get back to you as soon as I can or after this week you can ever try to catch me on AIM... My SN is darlin0103 :-)
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I have the weirdest problem. Everytime I have a little sickness, I think it's huge. Like if I have a headache, i think it's a brain tumor. If I have a stomach ache I think I'm gonna hurl or that I have the flu. Yes, I know it's weird and freaky. But I need help!! i wanna stop. Please help me (link)
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You are probably just paranoid. But if you feel it's bad enough or is disrupts daily life you should trying talking to someone you trust about it or consider seeing a psychologist. Hope this helps some...
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