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I am Travis and i live in KY and i love it. Most of my friends are girls so i always try to help them whenever needed so thats why i decided to join this because i love to help ppl with whatever i can but i really love to help ppl with cutting problems because i have done it so many time for my friends and i want to make a difference for them and help them get over it. I am a very understanding guy!!

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My Best friend has had problems with an eating disorder and with cutting for some time now. She is in therapy and recieving treatment for both, however she still sometimes relapses and doesn't eat or cuts. Her boyfriend seems to think it is apropiate to say things to her when she doesnt eat like "If you don't eat tommorrow then I'm not going to either" Or if she ends up cutting he cuts himself. I think that he is making her feel worse when all she really needs is support... What should I do...Opinions? Advice?

ok well i have actually been through this alot with one a my best friends... by him saying that it is only making her feel worst becasue if makes her think that she is not doing anything right to please anyone so it makes her want to do it even more than she already has... my advice is to be there and convince her its not what she needs to to do to make things better honestly tell her that when she feels like cutting to get a coloring book and color cause it really does help i have spent manyof hours on the phone with my friend convinceing her not to do it matter what \and to eat and the things is that no matter what your doing if this person needs to talk stop doing whatever your doing and help cause you would be surpirsed what that can do and how much that will help them but i no it can be hard but keep trying to get her to stop i did it and its posible!! Contact me and let me knoe how things go cause i really like to help ppl with that problem and if you need more advice let me TAHNKS! I hope she can eat and stop cutting

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