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Q: hey im 13 years old and in jr high school their is always soo much drama, and one of my friends alana.. she is ALWAYS sooooo sad.

like one time she was like my cousin died and i miss him so muchh
and it was so awkward because i didnt knoww what to say. i didnt know how to make her feel better.
and she would just be like, saying these deep things and how she was so sad and missed him so much and i wouldnt know what to say.. what do i say to make people feel better with things like this??

also.. she always comes to me like "the guy i like ALOT doesnt like me. he told me who he likes and its not me im so sad"

i dont know what to say to that either. and it just gets really awkward.

so how can i give advice on stuff like this betterr?
help =)

well i would suggest you ask yourself what would i want someone to say to me if i were in this situation.I also feel akward when my friends want me to give them advice thats how i help them.It is hard to help them since its really not your problem to deal with but you should just thonk of things to say to her ok hope this helps.

Q: well i have this guy friend that lives an hour away from me and he has a gf but shes on house arest but when he came over to his moms house he asked for my number around christmas and i wrote him and gave him my number, but i also tolled him that i would try a long distance thing with him if he would brack up with his gf(and we both have liked each other since7th grade). i'm know in 9th and i don't know what to do, so please help.

well i guess all you can do is hope he breaks up
with his girlfriend.I warn you though so long distant relationships are difficult so i woould think about that.hope this helpz.

Q: I'm a 15/m and I like this guy...

how do I tell him that I like him?

ok let me get this straight your gay .
well anyways .just explain to him that you like him . but don't be to hard on him if he's shocked or anything ok just explain to him how you feel. hope this helps .

Q: i like this guy we have hung out a few times he's in one of my classes i have givin him head before and almost had sex with him i like him a lot he talks to a lot of girls but doesnt mess around with them hes actually still a virgin.. im not. he told me that he liked me but then i heard that he said the same exact thing to my friend a month back. before the first time we hung out he told me that he didnt want a relationship because he wanted to not be tied down to one girl.. i was upset and we stopped talking for a while cuz this girl got on him aim and acted like him and pissed me off. i started talking to him again after he appoligied to me.. i really like him and he told me that he likes me hes just afraid of commitment but then my friend told me that he told her that same stuff when he hungout with her a month or two ago .. he tells me that he doesnt like her at all they are over for sure because her dad doesnt like him but they were never dating.. what should i do? how should i act?

well you should probably not keep pushin to be with this guy.to me he sounds like he's playin you befor you are even goin out.so i would watch him and talk to some of the girls he's been with . that way you'll find out if he's tellin the truth or not .because if he said he really like you but he's just afraid of commitment
to more than you you are most likely dealing with a player .hope this helps .

Q: what are some really good flirting tips that would make a guy want you really bad....theres this boy i really like and i wanna kinda catch his eye you know....please help!
thanks
jess

ok the best way is to just act liuke yourself.
as usual.i think you should probably start talking to him and hangin out with him and stuff that will totally get him interested in you.
hope this helps.

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ok my name is cassy im 16 years old.
i started this column because i want to help
answer some questions people have .
so don't be afraid to ask me because whatever
u need help with im here .
anyways my main focuse is on teens but pretty
much if anyone needs help i'll be here to try and help so plz feel free to ask me some questions .