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15/f
Hello. I have been dating a guy for three months. We are both 15. I've been friends with him for a year, had a crush on him almost that whole time, and everything had been going great. He's not popular, he's quiet, and I thought he was just the nicest guy ever. He treated me great, wanted to hang out with me all the time, said he loved me, kissed me... I couldn't have been happier. We never fought or anything, and I thought I'd found a cute, nice, smart, funny guy who really liked me. He was mature, chivalrous, complimentary...everything I could ask for.
Of course, everything had to change. Last week he became a different person. He told me I sound obnoxious and I talk too loud, that I'm boring when I don't talk (he literally froze all last week and barely talked, so I didn't want to keep blabbering on when he wasn't reciprocating), and I think he may like this other girl we're friends with. They've only recently become friends. That girl is really nice and funny, but tons of people think she's annoying because she does not stop talking, and she is NOT attractive. I am considered attractive. But he's been lighting up when she comes around, and today at school he told me that seeing her for five minutes at the end of the schoolday is "the highlight of his day." That REALLY hurt me. So, after he said that, I flat out asked him if he liked her and he said "EW, no." He used to text me every day (until one week ago!) and when we would say goodnight he would tell me he loves me or send a heart or SOMETHING. Now, IF he texts me at all, and IF he bothers to send a good night text, it will either simply say "good night" or sometimes just "k."
I have no idea what to do. He's never been like this before. He's a different person all of a sudden. I'm still in love with him and I don't want to break up with him. Also, last weekend was the first weekend we didn't hang out (I asked him to and he said he couldn't...but he doesn't do any extracurricular activities). I don't smother him. We both have other friends. I don't know what happened and why he's acting this way, and I have no idea what to do. How can I get back to how we used to be? I had never been happier in my life, and all of a sudden he's become mean and disconnected and just weird. Thank you. (link)
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I'd be stupid to come here and say it's one thing specifically, because let's face it, only you know this person. Judging by what you wrote though, something is definitely up. I advise you sit down and talk to him. Ask him what's on his mind, if there's anything he wants to share. Tell him that you miss the person you fell in love with, and if that by any chance that person might come back. Give him the confidence to be open about what he's thinking, even if it hurts you, it's better to know the truth. Who knows? He might be having problems at home or some other logical explanation. I really hope you guys can get through this little rock in the path, you sound like a loving couple! Hope this helps.
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15/f
Hello. I have been dating a guy for three months. We are both 15. I've been friends with him for a year, had a crush on him almost that whole time, and everything had been going great. He's not popular, he's quiet, and I thought he was just the nicest guy ever. He treated me great, wanted to hang out with me all the time, said he loved me, kissed me... I couldn't have been happier. We never fought or anything, and I thought I'd found a cute, nice, smart, funny guy who really liked me. He was mature, chivalrous, complimentary...everything I could ask for.
Of course, everything had to change. Last week he became a different person. He told me I sound obnoxious and I talk too loud, that I'm boring when I don't talk (he literally froze all last week and barely talked, so I didn't want to keep blabbering on when he wasn't reciprocating), and I think he may like this other girl we're friends with. They've only recently become friends. That girl is really nice and funny, but tons of people think she's annoying because she does not stop talking, and she is NOT attractive. I am considered attractive. But he's been lighting up when she comes around, and today at school he told me that seeing her for five minutes at the end of the schoolday is "the highlight of his day." That REALLY hurt me. So, after he said that, I flat out asked him if he liked her and he said "EW, no." He used to text me every day (until one week ago!) and when we would say goodnight he would tell me he loves me or send a heart or SOMETHING. Now, IF he texts me at all, and IF he bothers to send a good night text, it will either simply say "good night" or sometimes just "k."
I have no idea what to do. He's never been like this before. He's a different person all of a sudden. I'm still in love with him and I don't want to break up with him. Also, last weekend was the first weekend we didn't hang out (I asked him to and he said he couldn't...but he doesn't do any extracurricular activities). I don't smother him. We both have other friends. I don't know what happened and why he's acting this way, and I have no idea what to do. How can I get back to how we used to be? I had never been happier in my life, and all of a sudden he's become mean and disconnected and just weird. Thank you. (link)
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I'd be stupid to come here and say it's one thing specifically, because let's face it, only you know this person. Judging by what you wrote though, something is definitely up. I advise you sit down and talk to him. Ask him what's on his mind, if there's anything he wants to share. Tell him that you miss the person you fell in love with, and if that by any chance that person might come back. Give him the confidence to be open about what he's thinking, even if it hurts you, it's better to know the truth. Who knows? He might be having problems at home or some other logical explanation. I really hope you guys can get through this little rock in the path, you sound like a loving couple! Hope this helps.
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There's a boy named freddy,I met him when I was in second grade,I've always hated him because he took my cousin away,we never talked but until 7th grade.I don't know why because freddy hangs with the 'cool' group and I hang with any avereage group.well we walk home together with another boy named cyrus ,they always ask who I lllike and I ay no one.one time I head cyus and freddy whispering about something but for some reason the. Wont tell me.I need advice. How can I mmake him tell me who he likes (link)
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Well, first off do you like him? By what you've written, it seems so. Just ask him, try doing it playfully. Smiling, ask him, "So who's the lucky lady?" If he doesn't tell you, that's fine. Don't pressure him. With time, you'll probably get a hint or two. Good luck!
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