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OK well i have just caught the eye of this really cute guy who works at the supermarket near my house. I mean he is so cute I can't stope smiling when I see him. *blush*
But idk how to talk to him. I have a really low self esteem. I'm 5'0" and 169 pounds....... a bit much for a girl my hieght..... so i am always worried that a guy is only looking at my face and not me..... also i am just to shy to talk to him. so any ideas on how i can break the ice?

the #1 best thing you can do is CARRY YOURSELF WITH CONFIDENCE. believe it or not, guys can tell when you don't believe in yourself, and that is not attractive. next time you go to the supermarket justt flash a smile and say hey. or strike up a conversation about the store.

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So theres this guy I really like named Adrian.
Hes wicked funny and nice.
We talk all the time and share some of the same intrest.
But anyway..
yesterday he told me that we could only be friends and we will never be more.
That I shouldn't like him anyway cause
I need someone who is nice,happy, and cool.
But even though he says he doesnt like me
he still acts like he does.
Like in Chorus he looks over at me all the time
&& he flirts with me and ughh
I dont know what to think,
im so confuseedd.
HELP PLEASE!
Thanksss :]

Hi :]
Well this is a toughie. Guys can be very confusing can't they? He says you need someone nice happy and cool, so maybe he doesn't think he's good enough for you. Maybe he really likes you as a friend but just isn't attracted to you in a romantic way, but maybe a fun flirty friends with benefits way. I really don't know what he's thinking but in my expeirience just go up to him and straight up tell him you like him and want to be more than friends, but its apparant he doesn't think it would be a good idea, and ask him why he flirts with you all the time if he doesn't have feelings for you. It's never fun to hear someone you like doesn't like you back but sometimes guys say they don't because they think you might reject them, but they honestly do like you. Your best bet is to just ask him and find out :] If you need any more advice just drop another one in my inbox :] Hope i helped.

♥ Shelby

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Okay, so I'm in love with this guy named ross, and im not sure if i should hook up with other people to see if it makes him jealous or just hook up with nobody because i only want him. it makes me feel bad when i hook up with other guys bc it makes me want ross more but i figured he might want me more if i did hook up with other guys, and ive tried to before adn it didnt seem to work but idk i think should keep trying.

-- Danielle (on kellys username)

Don't try and make him jealous. He will just be like, "She doesn't like me." & move on. Just freaking ask him out if you like him. That's usually but most people DO. How old are you anyways, I mean, most people figure, 'I like a guy, I flirt and maybe ask him out.' But they DEFINITLY don't think, 'Hmm. Maybe I'll go out with other guys. Maybe then he will like me.' It'll probably just make him think your slutty. Which isn't good. Future advice - don't ask stupid questions on advicenators. It makes people angry
--Shelby

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i think i like a gay guy. i would ask him out if only he wasn't gay. hes cute but wears the same tight jeans that look like he got them out of the womens department everyday. i have no idea why he would wear that in the summer anyway. also with that outfit, he would wear a black shirt, black sneakers, volcom cap, and checkered belt. also only on one day he wore a different outfit. it was a marun (however you spell it, and if u don't no what i put, its that dark red and purplish color) shirt, plaid shorts, same belt and hat, and green sneakers. it looks like he took a pair of shorts out of my dad's closet. i don't know if hes gay or if he just doesn't have style. what do u think? and also i would like him if he wasn't "gay" and had better style. what should i do? thanks-♥

He's not gay.
He thinks he's emo/scene.
Thats how "scene" people dress. Its not very uncommon where i live, and alot of my friends find it rather attractive :P haha. The way a guy dresses doesn't determine his sexuality. If he is wearing the same clothes everyday, he might have a hygeine problem. Ask him out :] You'll find out preeeety quick whether or not he's as "gay" as you think or not :]
♥Shelby

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ok so in 3 1/2 weeks it will be me and my bf 1 year anniversery. so i was wondering.. what can i get him.. i got a couple ideas but not so sure about them any idea?

1) besides a gift i was thinking of sendin him like a love letter to his house. is that good or bad? how much be4 time do i have to send it to him in order for it be recieved on the exact date. he lives 45 minutes away from me.

2) i was also thinking about like a hat and a brecelt. what do you think?

any idea will get a 5

Hmm, well I don't know when you would have to send the letter it just depends on your mail system and such. Ask your parents or go to the post office and find out. About what to get him, guys often like, sunglasses (like from sunglass hut or whatever.) puka shell necklaces, giftcards to their favorite stores (AE, Hot Topic, whatever he's into) and also, video games. So if maybe you've noticed he has an Xbox or Gamecube and heard him ranting to his friend about this KILLER game he HAS to have, maybe get him that. Boxers, DVDs, and CDs are good ideas too. Drop me a line & let me know what you end up getting him :]
♥ Shelby

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