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okay well im a very out going girl, i tell people what i think. i have my own opinion and im not afraid to voice it but i dont over do it. i love giving advice and alot of my friends come to me when they need help.. so for all you people out there- lemme try and help you out! ill answer any questions thrown at me..

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okay so my best friend she has this problem where she flirts with EVERYONE! she like cheats on all her bf and flirts with every guy she sees and does stuff with them too. well there is this guy mike and i realy like him and i have for awhile but she just told me that shes gonna go hang out with thim tonight...and i dont knoe wut to do i mean i can't really tell her that i still like him cuz we just got into a fight and like i don't want her makein-out wit him tonight cuz i have him right at my fingertips we're almost even goin out.. and im afraid that if she flirts with him tonight he will prolly do sumthing wit her and then i'll lose him all over again!

so please help asap!
sorry if this is soo long (link)
okay girl listen.

you need to tell her how you feel, who cares if she is mad she will get over it. and if she feels the need to flirt with every guy and do stuff then let her. let her get a rep on her own. and if you like that guy that much you need to tell her and him. and if you find out what she does then.. id unno youll have to handle it. i guess thats easy for me to say cause i dont take the crap from girls. girls like that piss me off.. soo good luck.



hey !! my name's arielle and im 13 from jersey !! i have a serious problem !! ok well theres this band [not famous] and the guys in it are like 15 and 16.. and i haev a crush on one of the guys in the band.. and hes 16. the band is in pa and im in nj but we live like 6 hours apart. im gunna go to their shows tho but im worried that when i go and i meet the guy in the band i have a crush on that hes gunna think im a kid cause hes like 16 and im only 13. i feel that like hes gunna look at me as like reeeeal young and not like me in *that way*. what should i do? (link)
wouldnt you like a relationship thats close at hand? a guy to cuddle with and talk to in person that doesnt live so far away? and hes in a band.. alot of girls are probably gunna want to be with him just for that reason. in my view i dont think you should get involved. older guys seem to want to take advantage of the younger girls. and if he thinks your young thats cuz you are. 16 and 13 and 6 hour distance isnt the best way to go. find someone better around your area.. or wait and play it single



ok, so i had this party at my house the other night and there was alot of like 21 year olds there. and i started talkin to this one guy, i talked to him for like 5 hours! hes awsome! hes 21 and im 13, and i know nothing seriouse coould ever happen but theres just something about him. i mean he works at ym dads work and everytime i go to my dads work i want to see him. i have a crush on him ya know, but is it ok to have a crush on someone 8 years older then you? (link)
well lets look at the lesser of the evils..

its only 8 years right? lol.. yeah right

okay well.. in my opinion i have mixed feelings on younger girls dating older guys. because i hate to say it but NORMALLY they are only going for one thing, and thats sex. so i would watch out. and im sure your parents would have some say into who you date. just be careful girl. and dont get too involved if you do decide to see him.. because older guys have a strong hold over younger girls. they make them vonerable. besides.. if he tries to pull anything on you. its stagatory rape.


take care




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