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Q: ok.. like.. i have a boyfriend and all. we have not kissed yet.. but he keeps on telling me online that he wants to... so when i go on the dates with him im always nervous and cautious and stuff. i mean i never kissed anyone before. and i don't now how to do it .. like i dun want to just like stay there frozen... like.. when you normally get your first kiss like even if you don't know how like do you just do it.. or.. cuz i am like really nervous and stuff...

im so confused

Rissa
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im 13

okay i know exactly where you are except when it was my first kiss with like toungue, i was 14, and it was weird, when ever we did the chicken peck kisses he would try to stick his toungue in my mouth bt i just kept shut! then he started saying things to me about kissing with toungue and he also didnt know it would be my first kiss so yeah that made it even worse! if you le tthis guy know that he is your first kiss it will make it so much easier, just incase he dosent already! ne wais... lol... yeah but we were going to the movies with al of our friends one night and i new that it was time to kiss him and he realy wanted to and i did to! so i told my self tonight is the night no matter what i have to kiss him before the movie is over, it is our night to have our first kiss... and i did it! it worked i told myself to do it and i had total confidence in myself, just have confidence when you do it! i cnat explain but when it comes you automatically know what to do i naturally comes to you! it feels like you have done it alot of times if your confident in yorself, thats the key confidence, dont let him know that you are nerves! my boy friend pulled away smiling and had no idea he was my first kiss til i told him! he said it was one of the best kisses cause i didnt try hard and i didnt go all out hoe, i was just relaxed, natural, soft, and myself! it was great! and i hope yours is just as fun! good luck gurl, and remeber, confidence is so the key... i hope that i could help out and all so yeah if you ahve ne other questions just drop it in my box! good luck and i wish you the best of luck! confidence, remember that! x3 H a N n A h

Q: there are these 3 guys. 1 i like and sorta likes me, 1 that likes me that i just think of as a friend, and 1 that likes me ane i like him. i'm confused on what to do because i feel stupid waiting around for guy number one when i know nothing will ever happen and i really like the third guy. what should i do wait around for guy number one who is really shy and wont make any moves or go for the third guy who will make the moves and is a little more confident and i know likes me?

definatley guy number three! you know he likes you and he is confident in himself. it wont feel awkward and it will be easier to flirt and make moves cause he will do it back!

Q: im really tired of being single and miss having a boyfriend, but im gonna be a Jr. and i think i should get serious about school and my future. Should i get a boyfriend or just worry about school?

THANX
-twiSted

well you should worry about school. see if you do good in school you'll get into a good school and you'll meet a really good smart guy that is going to be successful! worry about school and not some high school thug that could end up workin at McDonalds! then get a doctor or lawyer or some kind of rich guy! hope i could help! if you need any thing you cna drop one in my box, okay! x3hannah

Q: im 14/f and i have never had a boifriend. i am really outgoing around my friends but whenever i'm around guys i get shy especially around guys i like. and it seems like all the guys at my school only like the sluts and nobody else.. what are some ways to get to be better friends with more guys and how to not be shy around them? thanks.

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Q: ok well there's this guy in my neighborhood and i'm new here (well not really cuz i lived here for 3 years) but anyways... i think i have a crush on him and stuff but hes always around his friends and i met him like 3 years ago and we don't really talk and he's one year older than me.I'm really shy.... what should i do to get him to notice me???

go lay out and tan one day when he is outside in your front yard and when he lookes do a cute smile/wave thing then start lookin at a magazine (DONT LOOK AT HIM)oh yeah... be suckin on a blow pop... if that dosent get his attention then hang out with one of the other kids n the neigboorhood that talks to him and act really outgoing but dont act like your interested, dont stare at him and be all shy... guys dont like that, just be outgoing and not to flirty but cute (twirlin hair, standin cute, etc...) and be chewin a piece of gum but try the tanning thing first. hope i could help! good luck! x3hannah

Q: So yeah I have this friend that i met over the internet through one of my other friends and hes really nice and all. I have been talking to him for about 3 years now..and I went to his house once before with a cuple girls, and he wouldnt come outside! Iv been dieing to see him because my friends that know him tell me hes very good looking, and tonight we made plans to go to the movies with people and he canceled them because he was suposovly "sleeping"..can you help me try to find a way to acutally make plans with him so we can finally meet!?

okay... well first of all if i was talking to someone for three years without tryin to ignore someone then obviously im atleast a little interested in meeting them in person. So if yall talk then he must want to meet you. Next time you talk to him just say that you want to meet him in person cause you have been talking to him for so long then say i know that you (meaning him) have even a little intrest in meeting me if you talk to me so lets hang out sometime. and if he dosent be like hey buddy your loss and for get him, unless he is shy. if he is then say im nerves a little, so if thats the reason you wont hang then dont worry about it. i hope that i could help and i hope you get to meet him, seems like a nice guy. good luck bbye x3hannah

Q: what are some hints you can give a guy to ask you out??

keep him on his toes. when yall are talkin and jokin around be like "keep this up mr.(first and last name) and i may develope a crush on you... ill keep you posted, wink and walk away but DONT LOOK BACK AT HIM

Q: My best guy friend and I are both 17 and will be seniors in HS in september. We have been friends since frosh year, and became really close last year. I know I can tell him anything and he knows he can do the same. Throughout most of our junior year, I had a crush on him. Yet, I could not tell if he felt the same about me cause of mixed signals. We flirt with each other, hug each other sometimes, and talk a lot online(we both are busy with school). A few times he's even stayed after school for no reason on days that I have my flute lesson and hung out with me. One time, he even calmed me down when I was about ready to haul off and kill one of my best friends for being a jerk to me. He's confided in me a few things and I have confided in him my most private secret. We trust each other and value each other. Yet, I can't read his mind when it comes to me.

TELL HIM TELL HIM TELL HIM... you can tell him any thing and he is your bf... just be like "i think im startin to get a small crush on you, if your lucky ((giggle)). ill keep you posted". then walk away leaving him hangin... guys love a challenged and are turned onto mystery and hard to get

Q: This is gonna be long but I need help..

So me and my boyfriend were totally in love.. But then he cheated on me with another girl, he made out with her for like an hour. AND he was the one that came onto her. I broke up with him, and was totally heartbroken because I still love him... So then I saw him, and he apoligized, saying, "I`m so sorry, You are perfect, I only want you, that kiss from her meant nothing, I love you so much and I`m so sorry.." And so now I`m going back out with him.. But the thing is, I`m not sure. I still love him, but I can`t trust him.. And things are just kind of awkward now. I have no idea what to do.. Please help, I rate high !!

i think every guy deserves another chance and if you truely love him then you should giv ehim another chance. he's only human and he makes mistakes.. dont hold that against him. put him on "probation" and then one mess up and he is so0o0o gone he wont know what happend!!! earn his trust back, try to work on it. tell him nicely and not with an attitude that you dont have any trust in him and he will have to earn it back now and fast. lay down the law and show him who is boss. but dont be a bitch, thats how you'll loose him again, just be nice about it but not weak, strong but not a bitch.

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