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does it sound like this guy likes me as more than a friend?
Well he had moved a couple of weeks ago. Before he moved we were usually in regular contact. He gave me his old computer before he left. He just got his internet hooked up. He gave me his private cell number, and also wanted to talk on msn messanger with me. In my experience, a guy won't volunteerly give out his private cell phone to a girl unless he's interested.
Well we started messanging each other a couple of days ago. When we talk it's usually for quite a long time; atleast an hour. He has been saying things like that he really missed me (with a crying face), and that he thought I was funny. I told him that I had a dream about the two of us a week ago and then asked if he ever did, and then he said he couldnt recall; but put a picture of a smiley face blushing. He also kept sending me winks and nudges. I also told him after my long shift last night that I wanted to soak in the tub and he sent me a smiley face with a huge grin and he said "GO FOR IT"! I also asked him if he liked talking to me on messanger and he said "for sure; you're a great person to know and talk to".
We talked for about an hour last night; and then he asked me what time I worked today because he wants to talk to me again.
So does it sound like there is something there more than a friendship? Or am I reading too much into it? (link)
i think your reading way too much into this. he sounds like a really good friend, but he doesnt sound interested at all.


I'm a 16 year old girl who's been dating this guy I'm fully in love with for around 7 - 8 months. We're both still virgins but we've talked about losing our virginity to each other. Neither one of us has EVER did anything sexually with another person, so I'm pretty sure neither of us have any STDS or AIDS. So far, we've experienced everything but sex with each other. We've considered all the risks & have thought long and hard about this, but mind you, we are prepared and we do have a brain unlike half the teenage population. We both know that we are fully ready to do this in our minds & hearts. But, I have a question. Even though, we aren't married & we're gonna lose our virginity to each other.. and though we've been together for a while & are planning on beging together for a long time after this (possibly even marriage later on, but you never know what may happen).. do you think this is okay? Like sometimes it worrys me because I know in my heart that it's a sin to have sex before marriage, but we've talked about it & with our friends as well, and we all figured out that if you ask God for his forgiveness, he will accept it. I just want opinions on this.. do you think it's okay to have sex at 16 if you're mature & ready enough? I mean, what's the point in waiting until you're married? I know one reason is because it can be a sin and then another is because there's a possibility of having a baby, but if you're sexually "safe" with condoms & birth control, then you're chances are very slim to none for having a child. So any opinions or thoughts is welcome on this.. don't be afraid to express how you feel, it won't bother me. Thank you all very much! :) (link)
I am a very stong catholic. What you are about to do is completely wrong. You know it's wrong. If you truly love someone, sex is not the way you need to express it. Though you and your boyfriend may feel as if you are ready, you are never truly ready unless yu are married. Virginity is a gift from God. That gift is meant to be given to only your husband, no one else. On your wedding night, the best wedding you can give your husband is your virginity. God made sex to be between married people, only. You are right when yu say God will forgive you, but will you forgive you? You may regret this, if things dont work out between you and your boyfriend. Then yu will have to live with yourself, knowing that you knew what the right choice was, but yu purposely made the wrong one. Sorry if this is too harsh, but that is my honest opinion. Please, make the decision you know is right.
Lemme know how things worked out


i make such a big deal out of little things with me and my boyfriend.. he thinks kristin from laguna beach is so hot so we fight wen he watches it.. its not my fault im jealous, but what can i do? (link)
Dont worry bout it ... i mean, if he is nice to yu and treats yu with respect thats all that matters. It's not something to be jealous over ... cus c'mon, everyone as a celebrity crush. The chances of him even being anywhere near Kristen r like zero, so theres no reason to be jealous. Yu know whether or not he likes so, so just calm down and relax. Hope i helped


Girls: Do you think it would be cute for a guy to ask before kissing a girl? Would you find that cute or weird? (link)
i think it's SO cute. It shows a lot of respect. And, if he asks yu, yu know that he wants to actually kiss yu, so it shows he really likes yu!


I am a 13/f and never had a boyfriend and I think think this is my chance.There is this boy who has gone to mostly every school I have gone to(were in the same grade).But I think he likes me.Its like he has been drooping clues like he stares at me all the time with this serious look on his face,he saved me one time(if thats what you wanna call it)because I was walking and I wasn`t waching where I was going so I was about to bump into the wall then he said somthing to me then that made me look up,and his friend keeps on looking at me and once he was starring at me so I turend around to look and he quikly turend around.So how do I figure out if he likes me without talking to him and can you give me information on how to tell if a boy likes you.
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First of all, decide whether yu like him. Dont go out with him just becus yu want a bf. Yur first bf should be special, dont go out with him just for the sake of having a bf.

From what you have told me, it kinda sound like her likes yu. Guys are so complicated tho. It's easy to get signals crossed. Yu have to talk to him tho, definetly. If yu really like him, just talk to him more, be friendly. Find something yu have in common(a school subject, sports, anything) and have a conversation. If yu feel that in yur heart yu really do like him, tell him. Yu have to, it's really the only way. He sounds very shy, so he needs to know just how you feel. If yu really like him, you shoodnt be afraid to tell him. Or have one of your more outgoing friends go up to him, and ask him if he likes anyone. Be subtle, ask if he likes "anyone" Although, he might not say he likes yu to your face, but if he says no one, he is probably lying=) I really hope I helped, let me know how this all turns out. Best of luck! =)


Hey i am 13 and i live in australia. So when me and my boyfriend talk, he always looks at my lips and mouth...its kinda weird..i dont reli care about it but its just..weird...> (link)
Well yeah, he probably wants to kiss yu. Although, dont think it's weird. For some people, when they are talking to others, they cant make eye contact, thats really very normal. Hope I helped=)


ok well i really like a friend of mine and today i told him i did ( online, because i didn't see him today ) and he didn't really respond .. all he said was " i heard you did from a friend " and then a few seconds later he told me he had to go eat dinner and signed off .. what does this mean ? how can i take care of feeling awkward around him ? what do i say ? thanks (link)
Don't feel akward around him. If it seemes like he didn't care, you shouldn't either. Talk to him about it, maybe it just came as a surprise to him, and he was shocked, and didn't know what to say. Guys are like that, they make mistakes and they don't really know it. Don't feel nervous around him, it would only make things worse.




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