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well first i am 14/f, and anyone makes fun of my question in anyway, i will report you and get you banned. and well people who are willing to help, please help i need help ASAP. my problem is this. i am crushing on a gay guy. i just met him and he first denied that he was, but today he told me and my friend that he is gay. but he is fits so perfect for my dream prince. he likes stuff i like, and such. not to mention he is sooo hot.

so please, is there anyway i can turn him straight? i know it will be really hard and i can't help it because its like hormon, but i have heard of few stories that it can happen. but i dont know how, and please dont say give up, because i know most of you will try to do that but i already know that , but i have to try at least!! so please please help me.

i rate 5 if it helps even a little.

If u like him that much, then u should try talking to him. If he doesn't understand, than he doens't. Tell him how you fell, and if he likes you back, he will change his ways.
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Me and my Boyfriend just broke up on Friday after an off and on 4 1/2 years together. This is something I have been through before with him, but this time he told me to leave him alone forever. I don't think he really means that, and this break up hurts so much. He has not called me and I wrote him a letter yesterday that he should get today, reminding him of good times, and I pretended to be ok with moving on. I am still very depressed and I don't know what to do. What do you think I should do?

What you need to do is that you really need to talk to him. Go to his house and discussed what went wrong. Ask him why he never wanted to see you again. If he doesn't want to talk about it, ask him why. "Why" questions are always good.
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i like this college guy whose a rlly good friend of mine. i dont kno if he likes me. he leaves soon for college ... ne tips ... ne advice on what i can do to find out ?!?!

thanks

Ask one of his good friends if you no them, or just ask him yourself. You could be like, "I know some 1 who likes you, but before i tell you, you must tell who you like." If he says you, then you can tell him that you like him too, but if he says someone else be like "OK, thanks!"
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well there's this guy i like..and we've dated before and we always seem to fight now but we're the best of friends..well today we got in a big fight..and i told him i didn't want to hang out with him again this summer (we don't live in the same town) and he's like w/e and he got all mad at me..later i told him i was sorry and i still want to hang out with him and he's like yeah right and than i got an e-mail from him and it was this chain that he sent to me and it said that like he will always be there for me and everything and how i'm a great friend..but later he sent me a message when i wasn't there and it said i hate you (one time i was talking about someone hating me and he said "who could hate you"). so it kills me to know that he hates me. and he pretty much said that he could never hate me. i have no idea what happened..cause we always kid about that stuff be he didn't say he was kidding or anything..i'm soo worried about our friendship now..and i didn't even do anything..i love this kid right to death and i would do anything for him..i never knew how much the words "i hate you" could feel until you hear it from the one person you would do anything in this world for..even give up your life for them to keep living. it hurt me so bad..and i just want to tell him but i don't know if i can even express to him how much it hurt me. please help me..i just want to know what to say to him..i know it's really what i feel i should say but i need some help. i rate high! please help me! i'm stuck in the gutter on this one. =/

Tell him! Tell him that you're sry. It might seem weird, but if you have a guy problem like that guys tend to forgive you if you're the first to say you're sry. It's really weird, but it works most of the time. Tell him that you were wrong and that you are very sry. "i hate you" are a three powerful words, but they turn better if you can find away to eleminate them.
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