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heyy i am Sarah& i am 13. feel free to ask anything you want i am always here ! =] rate me please !


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okay this is the typical boy problem that i'm sure you here every singal day, but i still need some help. I'm 13 and im a girl... okay... last school year i had a great boyfriend and he was the best, and then after awhile i started to like another guy and i felt guilty going out with the guy, while liking somebody else too. so i broke up with my boyfriend. the other guy that i liked i didnt have any chance with, and he was just my friend. so all summer long i was talking to the guy i liked(who i had broken up with my boyfriend for)and at times it felt like he liked me but then other times he was just my friend. so after a while i just gave up. i still had some feelings for my old boyfriend even when i broke up with him. so now my old boyfriend wont go out with me because he thinks that i break up with people so i can go out with somebody else. I dont do that though, I have a lot of reasons. But I always end up going back and forth between the two guys, i mean i cant deside who i like best. I just don't know what to do about it all and its confusing the heck outta me!! please help mee!!!
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confused

alright well it seems like your ex is jumping to conclusions too fast. if your not afraid you can call him and explain the real reasons you broke up with him but if you are, you know thats not why and if people question you tell them hes a liar and hes just mad cause u dumped him lol. but the other guy seems like he clicks with you and maybe you should bring up the subject of asking him who he likes. and then you should really take the chanse and tell him you like him. i think you might have a good chanse ! then you can make ur ex jelous while you have a nicer person to be with. =]

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Well.. I'm not sure how to put this... last year before school ended.. I started liking this kid named Kevin. Well we dated.. and then decided we didnt know enough about each other to be together so we broke up. Then he said when he gets to know me better we will get back together. I've talked to Kevin ever since school ended and yesterday we hung out all day long.. and he really really likes me. and If i didnt have a boyfriend wed be together. I really like Kevin. My problem is. I have a boyfriend. And I like Kevin more then my own boyfriend. And I'm not sure how to break up with him. Without him knowing that I'm going to be with Kevin. :( Ahh man... I sound like a slut.

just explain to your boyfriend now that you want to break up. dont tell him anything about kevin lol just say you started loosing interest, and you still want to be friends. then wait a week or so and go out with kevin so it doesnt seem ovious that you dumped your boyfriend for someone else.

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what do you do when you like this boy but your the new girl and he barly knows you

you know what i was kinda in the exact same thing ! exept we went out , and it only lasted like 2 days cause we didnt really know each other.. so maybe you should talk to him and work up kind of a friendship and flirt with him and stuff and evenutally he might end up liking you

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well here it goes i liked this kid and we started goin out on june 18th i think and we broke up recently...well he was on the fone with me n his best friend grabbed the fone and started dumpin me 4 him and im like ok i got ova it i mean i cryed 4 a good week or longer and im like y did he do that and hes like it wasnt all his fault and im like ok? but ne ways mi friends didnt really like him kinda chubby...but so sweet to me and im havin trouble getting ova him plz help me mi friends think im ova him and everything but i mean i dont wanna make them stress out all 4 me bcuz of him plz help ill rate u Signed brokenhart

i went through like the same thing ! he got his best friend to break up with me for him which is really low. then afterwards all he did was talk bad about me. alot of my friends didnt like him either and like you, he was so sweet to me, but i realized the old-him was back. its not hard to get over it either. trust me at least he didnt call you naims and stuff he probly wouldnt even mind being your friend. and maybe he didnt want to do it cause he felt bad or something and he didnt want u 2 be so hurt. you should set your eye on another guy you may even have the littlest feelings for, and veryy slowly youll eventually really like this person -- but somewhere in your heart you will have a place for the guy who broke your heart , and you need to just let him go for now. anybody low enough to not even break up with you himself doesnt deserve you ! so dont sweat it, keep your eye out for someone else

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