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Hihi. My first name is Sofia. But no one calls me that. It's either Natasha, Chantal, Chantilly, Chantilly Lace, Sophie, Alex, or Lexi. Sometimes Sexi Lexi, but whatever. I love music, writing, acting, and photography. ♥ I have alot of experience with things; sex, anorexia, guys, bisexualism/lesbianism, ect. Mostly things that have happened this past year. Alot of my friends have started coming to me for advice, and so I think I might have a good shot at giving advice to some other people besides them.
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okay here it goes.. when i was 11, i meet this boy... lets call him bob, and he was sorta a jackass to me, so then we went on for about 5 years not talking to eachother. but we did see each other around the town, we didnt even say hi to eachother, so then i move from the town i was living in with my dad, and attend another skool, on my second day of my new skool i see him again, and then me and him started talking and i figured out that he really changed in those 5 years,but i found out he has a girlfrand, so i flirt with him and write him letters explaining how much i like him, then i invited him over to my house, and he makes out with me, and he cheated on his gf twice be4 breaking up with her.. he exclaimes hes sorry for how hes treated me and that he fell in love with me.. so 5 months later hwere dating and he asks to marry me... my problem is i love him but i dont kno if im ready for the commitment yet..
If you're not ready, or if you don't know if you're ready, then I say you should say no. Tell him that you love him, and that you want to continue dating, but is he ready to provide for you? My boyfriend recently gave me a promise ring. He told me that he wanted to marry me, but that it just wasn't the right time. I had school, he had school, we both had to graduate, focus on how the hell we're going to pay for college, not a wedding. If there's a feeling that he's "the one" you'll know. I've only been with my boyfriend for 2 months, and it's just a right feeling. You'll know it when you get it.