Ok what if you had a boy friend and a bunch of girls were all over him.Then one day you seen your boy friend grabb another girl and was flurting with her what would you do?
well first i would ask him what it was all about. if he was doin it b/c he likes her...then you guys should just talk about it... but for the most part i really wouldnt worry about it that muc..unless u get like really suspicous that like hes cheating but...i would just ask him though and if it really bugs you then tell him and if he really cares for you he'll understand
hope i helped ♥
♥ rachy ♥
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well i like this guy and he sorta likes me. i asked my friend to ask him if he liked me and he said i was annoying...then she asked him if i not annonying ne more would he go out with me and he said yea deffinently..how do i become "unannoying"??????
well first of all i would ask him why he thinks you are so annoying...if he says for example that you talk to much...try not to...thats all i can really say
hope i helped ♥
♥ rachy ♥
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ok.... i was dating my best friends ex bf and she was getting to the point of making us mad so one night we were talking and we thought it would be best if we were just friends. I mean i like him alot and were really good friends now but i think i should have said no but eveyone was tellin me that it was my fault that i said yes wat should i do????
well...first of all...u have to think.. did you talk to her about it b4 you went out with him? if you did then its ok b/c u talked to her about it and the people who are tellin you its your fault...are just stupid...but if you didnt then i hate to say it but it is your fault and i personaly think she has some what of a right to be mad at you...especially if she is not over him. well hun...thats all i can say
hope i helped ♥
♥ rachy ♥
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hey ok i have been having troubles, me and my boyfriend have just started having sex after we have been going out for 7 months and i dont know if it is to early or what but i really love him and also lately i have been making dumb choices like smoking and cutting and i dont know what is wrong with me i just get really randomly pissed off and cry or am sad for no reason and i dont know what to do i keep wondering if it is too early to have sex i mean im olny 14 but i dont know i do love him and he is a sweetheart but i just need some advice and i know you know who this is but ill see ya tomorrow kk love ya rach!!!!!!
well...i think that if you really believe that you love him and you feel its right i think its ok that ur having sex...but about the cutting and smoking...thats not good...if im correct about who it is...it will interfere big time w/ur sport and ik the coaches will notice it...and besides..youve heard and seen my stories and you know how bad the cutting is for you...like uk that both coaches have seen my scars and like..yeah its bad...but other than that...about you crying all the time.. thats ok...i do it too a lot of the time...it helps sometimes uk?well... i really hope i helped...and if i didnt then...u can just talk to me...uk when u can see me!
lyl hoe ;) ♥
♥ rachy ♥
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Well there is this guy I like and he has a girlfriend. When I found out I started to cry. I was so pissed off cause I like him so much. I dont know if I should move on and and date more people or just keep on liking him. And it hurts me so much that he has a girlfriend because he told me to my face that he liked me but I never told him that I like him. Was that my mistake? I just dont know anymore. I want to get him but I dont know how? I dont know what i should do?
heyy well i am in the same exact situation except the guy doesnt like me and i told him but.. what i think you should do is for right now let it go. i mean you dont want to tell him you like him if he likes you and has a gf b/c then he will have to make a decision on weather to domp his current gf of stay w/her.. so what i would do is stay friends and wait to see what happens. if they break up then go for it and tell him how you feel but if they stay together then i would just it go. its hard ik b/c i had to but you also dont want to interfere.
hope i helped♥
♥ rachy ♥
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ok... i was goin out with someone for a long time and then he broke up with me.I have been datin other ppl but i still like him i mean he still sort of likes me but not alot.plus i am dating someone really nice but i like never talk to him. wat should i do about everything i mean should i dump the guy im dating and let the other guy ask me out???
please help me
aww well im sorry that you n your ex broke up.. and i kinda know the situation you r in.. well the first thing i would say is just apriciate who youve got. i mean think about how bad it would hurt if a guy u really liked dumped you to go out w/ his ex. i mean if the guy you r dating is really nice like you say he is then dont give that up! some times its really hard to find a nice bf and not some player. instead of thinking about the other guy you should feel lucky for having the one you have right now. but of course this is only my opinion and im not telling you you have to do it. im just telling you what i would do.
i hope i helped!!!
&heart; rachy &heart;
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here is the thing.. im going out with someone but i like his bestfriend too and he likes me back(he told me).... and i feel like i am more closer to my boyfriends bestfriend than my bf cause i talk to his friend more than my bf... and i kinda like his friend more... and i dont wanna dump my bf for his friend cause thats mean and i dont want him to hate me and i dont know what i should do.... cause if i go out with his friend my bf mite hate me and his friend and i dont want to do that to his friend....
wow.. well lets just say ive been there before and.. it sucks.. so i know what its like.. well first of all i would be glad of what you have already. this is tough.. but ill try.. umm.. if you really like this guy enough that you would dump you bf for him.. then i say go for it.. but if i was you when i was dumping him i would try not to be harsh b/c that would make it worse.. say that youd rather be friends or something.. and then i would wait a little bit befor going out with the other guy.. but if you really lie your boyfriend then keep him. just be thankfull of what youve got. i can not make the desision for you but thats just what i would do.
i relly hope i helped!
*rachy*
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okay..well im dating this guy and um he don't call er anything but he goes to a diffrent skool and lives sorta near, he has tons of girls that are friends and well one time i called him and he was with tons of them and he gave the phone to his 2 friends or whatever and i was talkin to him and one of the girls was like nickk want to screw like last nite or w.e and well i was only talkin to his 2 friends and the 1 girl was saying he was like dating him or w.e in the background..and well i didn't get to talk to him relly because of it.. do u think he mite be cheating on me and should i break up with him???and plus the only time he calls me is to like come over or whatever..so what do you think?
wow.. thats kind of tuff b/c my first instinct would be to jsut talk to him about it.. b/c idk whats going on in his life so i can not make the decision for you. but the problem with you talking to him is he might deny it and that would get into a whole nother mess....... ok if i were you first i would talk to him about it and tell him whats bugging you. if he doesnt pay any attention and doesnt think anything about it then i would maybe talk to his friends and see what they have to say. but i would deff. talk to him first b/c if he really likes you then he will listen to you and hear you out. if after you talk to him he doesnt do anything about it and nothing changes.. then.. i would have to say go with your heart and do what you think is right for you. i mean.. if he is putting you through stress.. then id think hes worth the trouble. but if you think he is.. then stick with it. what i would do.. is at night while youre lying in bed look up at the ceiling and just think about it. which ever decision you are leaning toward i owuld go for.
i really hope i helped!
*rachy*
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