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okay.so first of all i sorta kinda like thsi boy but i dont really know him i just think hes hot. well i told this boy on my bus and it turns out he knows the person i like so hes gonna try to hook us up but idk if i should say yes considering i dont really know him but i mena i doubt he will ask me out but if he does.
--idk

hey. well i say don't worry about it until he actually ask you out. if he does ask you out then think about if you can see yourself going out with him like ya'll together. or just tell him that you want to get to know him better & then you might go out with him. but don't rush into a relationship if you don't really know him unless you actually do like him by then. so just wait it out until you know more. i hope i helped. xo

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OK. WELL i LiKE THiS GUY... AND HAVE FOR A WHiLE. WELL HiM && ONE OF MY FRiENDS JUST BROKE UP. && LiKE THE OTHER DAY i WAS TT HiM ON THE PHONE && HE ASKED WHAT ALL i HAVE DONE WiTH A BOY. WELL i TOLD HiM.. CAUSE WE WERE REAL GOOD FRiENDS. && i MEAN EVER SENSE THEN HES BEEN ACTiNG SO STRANGE AROUND ME.. && SAYiNG WEiRD STUFF LiKE "i HAVE KY JELLY" i MEAN GOOD FOR HiM BUT i MEAN i DONT KNOE iM NOT GONNA DO STUFF LiKE THAT WiTH HiM. i DONT KNOW HE MAKES ME FEEL LiKE A SLUT.iT SEEMS THAT HE JUST LiKES ME BECAUSE OF THE FACT THAT i HAVE DONE MORE THAN MAKE OUT WiTH A BOY.. LiKE iTS THAT BiG OF A DEAL. SO DO YOU THiNK i SHOULD CONFRONT HiM ABOUT iT? OR AM i JUST JUMPiNG iNTO CONCLUSiONS. i MEAN i REALLLLY LiKE THiS BOY..BUT i MEAN HE JUST NOW STARTED LiKEiNG ME BUT i DONT KNOW iF iT BECAUSE OF WHAT i THiNK OR NOT.
WELL PLEASE W/B
((YOU MiTE KNOW WHO THiS iS))
LOVE.

hey. okay well does he care what you've done or does he just want you to do these things with you? well if you don't want to do these things with the boy then don't. you can tell him straight up you don't want to he should understand that. but if he's making you feel like a slut then yeah you should say something to him. just because you've done more than making out with a boy don't mean your a slut. it ain't like your going around guy to guy everyday & having sex with them or something. that's a different story. so you should say something to him about that because he should know how you feel about that. also if he just started liking you just give it time because it may not be for that reason. so you should confront him & say something if it's bothering you. & i hope i helped if i got something wrong beacuse i was a little confused lol..then just write me back or email me ( lilmeg144@yahoo.com ) or IM me ( meganrheaxo ) & i'll help more. thanks...

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OOkAY..ii tHiNk YOU kNOW WhO i AM bUt ANYWAYS..SO i lIkE tHiS GUY...bUT SO dOES LiKE tWO OR tHREE Of MY FRiENdS..hES REAllY kUtE && hOtt && All tHAT GOOd StUff bUT iDk WhAt tO dO..LiKE ii SORtA JUSt StARtED LiKiNG ThiS dUdE! BUt tWO Of MY bESt FRiENdS lIkES HiM tOO && iM KiNdA SCAREd tO tEll tHEM..&& tODAY ONE Of HiS FRiENDS SORtA ASkED ME OUt fOR HiM bUt i DiDNT EVEN KNOW SO i JUSt WAS lIKE WhY?? NO..&& NOW iM KiNdA StARTiNG tO THiNk AbOUt iT && iT WONt SEEM tO lEAVE MY MiNd!! l0L && itS DRiViNG MEE fRiKKiNG kRAZii! lOL..WEll iM NOt SURE WhAT ElSE t0 SAY S0...lOL...X0X..C0NfUSEd bUNChES && i WANt YOUR hElP!

AlRiGHT..YEAH i KN0W WH0 YA ARE! l0l. BUT i SAY THAT Y0U SH0UlD jUST N0T SWEAT T0O MUCH AB0UT Y0UR FRiENDS. ME & MY FRiENDS HAVE G0NE THR0UGH STUFF liKE THiS BUT iF THE GUY liKES Y0U AND REAllY D0ES ASK Y0U 0UT THEN Y0UR FRiENDS HAVE T0 UNDERSTAND..BECAUSE THEY KN0W THEY`D D0 THE SAME T0 Y0U. iT`S 0NlY A B0Y & THEY Will GET 0VER iT BEliEVE ME. iF THiS D0N`T HAPPEN N0W iT Will EVENTUAllY BECAUSE GiRlS ARE jUST liKE THiS. iT`S N0T THAT BiG 0F A DEAl. & iF Y0UR FRiENDS D0 GET MAD iF Y0U AND THiS B0Y G0 0UT THEN THEY AiN`T TRUE FRiENDS. ME & MY FRiEND DiD THiS EXACT SAME THiNG & WE T0lD EACH 0THER THAN iF HE ASKED 0NE 0F US 0UT THEN WE KN0W WE`D SAY YES & WE`ll END UP BEiNG MAD BUT WE WERE SUCH G0OD FRiENDS THAT WE G0T 0VER iT. S0 D0N`T W0RRY AB0UT Y0UR FRiENDS. HEY iF YA liKE A B0Y A l0T & HE ENDS UP liKiNG Y0U G0 F0R iT. S0 D0N`T SWEAT iT! jUST TRY T0 FiND 0UT ANYWAY iF HE liKES Y0U! & GET BACK T0 ME i WANT T0 KN0W WHAT HAPPENS! i H0PE i HElPED! S0RRY iF i DiDN`T.

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OK WELL i LiKE THiS BOY RiGHT? BUT HE LiKES ONE OF MY BEST FRiENDS THAT i iNTRODUCED HiM TO ((STUPiD.. i KNOW)) WELL SHE HAS BROKE HiS HEART NOT ONLY ONCE.. BUT TWiCE.. AND HE STiLL LiKES HER. HE KNOWS i LiKE HiM BUT i MEAN iDK. WE HAVE BEEN REAL REAL GOOD FRiENDS FOR EVER. HE iS LiKE ONE OF THE BEST GUY FRiENDS i HAVE EVER HAD.BUT i DONT KNOW .. THROUGH OUT THiS FRiENDSHiP i STARTED TO LOVE THiS BOY AS MORE THAN A BEST FRiEND. HE iS THE SWEETEST MOST CARiNG GUY EVER. && PERSONALLY i MEAN i LOVE THiS GiRL TO DEATH SHE iS ONE OF THE GREATEST PEOPLE i KNOW.. JUST NOT FOR HiM. i DONT THiNK HE WiLL EVER GET OVER HER.HE TOLD ME TO JUST GiVE iT TiME.. THAT HE DOES LiKE ME BUT HE STiLL iSNT OVER HER. SO i WANT TO KNOW iF i SHOULD JUST WAiT iT OUT AND WAiT FOR HiM TO ASK ME AND FACE THE FACT THAT HE WiLL NEVER GET OVER HER ((HiS FiRST "TRUE" LOVE)) OR JUST GiVE HiM UP. WELP PLEASE WRiTE ME BACK.
LOVE.
CONFUSED

HMM "C0NFUSED" .. i SAY THAT Y0U SH0UlDN`T jUST T0TAllY ST0P WAiTiNG F0R HiM. BUT D0N`T MAKE HiM Y0UR NUMBER 0NE PRi0RiTY. liKE..TRY T0 N0T THiNK AB0UT iT AS MUCH BECAUSE WHEN THE TiME C0MES & HE KN0WS WHAT HE WANTS & jUST F0R S0ME REAS0N iT AiN`T Y0U..THEN iT W0UlD BE EASiER F0R Y0U THAN T0 G0 AHEAD & GET Y0UR H0PES UP AB0UT HiM N0W. EVEN TH0UGH i KN0W THiS iS THE HARDEST THiNG EVER..BUT JUST BE PATiENT. THAT`S All Y0U CAN D0 RiGHT N0W. jUST SiT iT 0UT, SEE WHAT HAPPENS. & H0PE F0R THE BEST. BUT D0N`T GET Y0UR H0PES UP T0O MUCH. BECAUSE iF Y0U D0 & THEY GET CRASHED D0WN..THEN iT HURTS W0RSE. S0 i H0PE i HElPED & WRiTE ME ANYTiME

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ok well i like this guy and he like doesnt like me @ all. there is no chance. but i think that my friend likes him cause shes always flirting wih him i asked her if she liked him and sh said no buti think she just didnt wanna tell me that she liked the guy i am totaly just crushed over. wut should i do im totally confused and i just dont know wuts oing on.

okay well i say you should talk to your friend. you know get the facts and make sure that she is totally honest with you. if she's a true friend then she will tell you the truth about it and hopefully she does. so all i can say is talk to her about it and see what happens and if none of this helps then just write me again
*megan*

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There is a guy that works at Hot Topic and he is so hot! I wish that I could talk to him. He is funny and sweet and really cute, but he probably thinks that I am a loser, because I know almost everything about him. Hehe. I wish that I was older so maybe I had just a chance. All of my friends know that I like him, and one day when I was at the mall with my friends I went in Hot Topic about 15 times just to see him, but i bought stuff too. He probably thought that I was some phsyco or something. I just wish that he would like me too. I just want some advice on what i should do, I would love to talk to him, just once, and him not think that I'm a loser.

ok well...lets see here...dont look too obsessed with him like going in the store and staring at him or whatever none stop because then he will think you some kinda of phsyco lol. but just go in and hang out ask him some questions about stuff in the store to be able 2 talk..but like i said nothing to make him KnOw that you're obsessed and then maybe yall will get to talking and get to know each other stuff if you're a "regular shopper" at hot topic. he will get to know you if you go there alot. just dont sweat it everything will start to work out. hope i helped
*mEg*

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Alrighty!!! First I wanna tell u thanks 4 all your help with everyone including me!! You never know who u culd be helping!!!! Anyway ok, My friend's boyfriend is extremely selfish!! He is an extremely huge brat!! He just doesn't care about all the things that she really does care about. It's lyk lil things that he doesn't do. I went off on his friend the other day, talkin about how selfish he was n stuff but he juss doesn't take how we want him 2!!!!! Obviously he's not the sharpest tool in the shed but I dunno wut 2 say 2 either of them. She wants him so bad tho So I'm tryin really hard not 2 b really mean 2 him!!! But then again I still want him 2 kno that she isn't happy w/ how he operates!!

~Tryin hard 2 help a friend!!*~

okay i think i kno who this is. but it's a good thing that you care so much about your friend and her relationship. but about the boy...it's probably just the way he is. he knows he could be a better boyfriend --believe me-- and he will get better. i mean sometimes he probably dont even know that he's being this way most of the time or whatever. just dont do anything to hurt the relationship but you can always talk to him or her and just help in anyway you can. even though theres some things about this guy that your friend dont like...theres probably SoOoOo much that she loves that makes her just forget about the things that she dont like and just get over it and not pay attention to it EvEn ThOuGh she'd like some things to change. just all i can really say is that dont worry too much about it because things will get better. if you think that she should say somethin to him then talk to her about it or talk to her before you say somethin to him. i really hope i helped and keep me posted of how this works ouT!
*mEg*

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every guy i like one of my frfiends end up likin him....i have liked this guy for a really long time n about 2months ago my friend started likein him. i really like him n i really want 2 ask him out but she alreayd asked him out n stuff n they have gotten "cLoSeR" he says he likes her better so should i just try 2 give up on him adn find someone new?!?! please help me !! plEAsE!!
...NeEdS HeLp...

i dont really wanna tell you to give up cause no one should give up. but dont get in any fights!! there horrible when a fight comes between your friend and a guy. it sucks believe me i've been though it. just all i can say is dont give up. if nothin happens with him and your friend then talk to your friend about it so you know she wont be mad but dont do somethin 2 ruin a friendship no guy is worth it! i hope i helped get back 2 me!
*mEg*

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Hello!! WEll okay I kno this really cute guy but I don't think he knos who I am...But I really lyk him a lot. My friends kno him tho. How do I get him 2 realize who I am?? Even when he does kno who I am then wut do I do??? but wut if he isn't who I thought he wuz??? I dunno PLZ HELP!!!!!

~*a lil confused*~

talk to him and get to know him better so you know who he is better and you know if you truely like him or whatever. if he doesn't know who you are then introduce yourself somehow. just try to become friends at first. just get as close as ya can to this guy and then he could possibly start to like you!! i hope i helped
*mEg*

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My friend is a lil worried about a guy that she sed no 2. She heard about a boy's friend in colorado that killed him self wen a girl told him no. She doesn't really have 2 much experience with boys anyway. I've been trying 2 telll her that the boy wouldn't do that and stuff but she says that she feels lyk she 'sterrible r sumthin. I kno that it sounds really ridiculous but I really don't know wut 2 tell her!!!!!
~*Wut do I tell a friend*~

hun dOnT wOrRy! yea guys have done that before but not all of them. guys get rejected all the time. anything that would happen to this guy is not your friends fault at all. your friend will find a guy that likes her that she really likes someday and there will be guys that like her and she dont like but it's not her fault when she says no because you cant just say yes so that your wont feel bad. just dont worry everything will be okay i hope i helped
*mEg*

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hey! it's me again! lol But thankz for that advice,and just to let you know I wasn't planning on saying anything to her boyfriend. She judt seemed so upset when she was talking to me about it so I didn't know what to do so I came to you! thankz so much your very helpful! thankz as always!
*~*Hopelessly in love*~*

no problem you can ask anything i'm always here!! good luck with your guy hun
*mEg*

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ok it's me again. Im having another problem with my friend and her boyfriend. I know you kind of told me to stay out of her buisness but i cant. She thinks that he dont love her and that is so not true! U can see it in his face when he talks to her! I can't stand the fact that she thinks that! It makes me so mad that she don't believe that when im not with the guy and i KNOW he loves her! He don't even have to tell me that he loves her and I know it! How do i let her know that he loves her? How do i get her to believe me! HELP ME!!thankz as always
*~*Hopelessly in love*~*

your friend will understand that he loves her sooner or later so just dont worry about them. but dont bug him about it to tell her that he loves her he will on his own. everything will work out. talk to ya soon probably lol
*mEg*

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Me again! I don't really know what else to ask you except for what if he wasn't flirting with me? what do I do then? But I also want to tell you how much of a help you have been with me and these guys! I really apriciate it! thank you so much!
*~*Hopelessly in love*~*

hey no problem you can always ask me anything. and you will know if he's flirting...you just will know. and if he wasn't then it dont mean he wont ever...so you still gotta chance for it. just dont give up ok!
*mEg*

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Hey!! It's me again! Well, my friend is doing relly good now with her boyfriend! I hope he will start getting his act together soon though! But about the guy! I don't really know if this is true but today it kind of seemed like he was flirting with me! I dont really know though! Im not good at reading guys signals! lol! He seems to be starting to like me! I hope so! what do you think I should do if he askes me out? Should I go out with him? What about my other friends? Do you think they will be mad? Please fill me in as soon as you can! thanks for your advice!
*~*Hopelessly in love*~*

hey..ok thats good about your friend and her boyfriend. but about the guy..congrats that he was flirtin with ya..and if he asks you out say yes!! i mean be considerate of your other friends..yeah..but you cant just not go out with him and then no one will so i mean someone might as well. i really hope everything works out!
*mEg*

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Hey! it 's me again! thanks for the advice about my friend with her boyfriend! I think I mite try that!Jst stay out of their buisness! But about the guy, I just found out today that another one of my friends like him! What can I do now, i cant do this. My friends are all starting to like this guy and I am starting 2 fall for him BAD! I have no clue what to do about this and I need alot of help! I need some answers! What should I do about the guy? Should I approach my friends about him? WHAT THE HELL DO I DO?? well HELP ME!
*~*Hopelessley in love*~*

your welcome for the advice. and thats good about your friend...get back to me and tell me how shes doin. and dont worry yourself so much over this guy. approach your friends if you think its the right thing to do. make sure all the people that like him know that you do and dont keep any secrets about him to people like dont keep everything about him to yourself. and just please dont worry about nothing. everything will work out hun write back anytime and tell me how everything works out
*mEg*

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hey! you don't know who this is but my BEST FRIEDN is having boyfriend problems right now, and i want to help her out but i don't really kno how 2 help her. I think i am making the matters worse! I just don't know what to tell her or how to help her like stay calm. I want but i don't know what to say! tHEN i have another friend who likes the same guy that I like but i don't want to mess up our friendship. I keep telling mself that I am over him, but it just aint working. Every time I EVEN LOOK AT HIM i get cold chills up and down my back, and my whole inside crumbles. All i can do is smile, i fell like a total dork! But its nothing I can do about it! Wut can I do to help my friend? and wut should I do about the guy? HELP ME!
*~*Hopelessly in love*~*

well..about your friend..if shes having problems with her boyfriend then help any way you can..but also just let her work things out with him or talk to her or him or both of them at the same time. but if its between them just let them work it out themselves unless one of them wants you to help with somethin specifically. and about the guy you and your friend likes...dont worry about it. you cant make yourself be over him or anything. like him if you do and if yall go out thats great just remember your friend too and she'd do the same about you if he liked her. just dont ruin a friendship thats aLL i CaN sAy!! dont worry yourself over anything and i hope i helped. take car girl
*megan*

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hown do you know if a guy likes you or not?! cause me and this guy have been friends since about last year or the beginning of this year and i'm startin to like him. how can i tell if he likes me more than a friend or not?!!

well...see if he ever starts acting different than when yall first met. see if he gives ya any signals or flirts in a way so that he'd maybe like you. he will just act different than other guy friends. you will know theres just something about it and you will know if he likes you. get back to me and tell me how everything worked out
*mEgAn*

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ok me and this guy have been going out for about 4 months, im 14, female, and i luv him soo much! We have made-out and been to each others houses, also hes looked down my shirt and lil things nuthing totally taking clothes off or anything, i definately dont want to have sex because im a christian and ive made that promise so what should we do if i want more than just making out?

okay. i understand when you say that your a christian and you dont want to have sex yet because i'm the same way. so if you want to do more than make out..try not to let it go all the way to sex. if he tries for it just tell him no. he should understand. but even though you love him don't let him tempt you into something you don't want to do. just make sure you let him know that you don't want to have sex if that's what hes leading to. hope i helped. be careful.
--megan--

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Hello I'm not tellin u who this really is.... but u do kno me!

OK I kno this really sweet sweet boy!! He is really funny!! But he's facially challenged lol!!
Well he's been a little lyk my bro but not as close as another boy who I would neva eva be more than lyk a sis 2!!! Neway I kinda lyk him n He is taller n not really out of my league n sum friends told me he lyks me.............
Wut do I do??
Who do I talk 2??
Wut do I say 2 him??
I know we would work out juss bcuz were so compatible!!!!!!
hmmm........
Help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
~*LOST n confused*~

well...i wish i knew who u was so it'd be a lot easier BuT my advice would be that if you like him then see if he really likes you and stuff and if you like him just try to get hooked up with him. i hope i helped
--megan--

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** i really like my ex boyfriend but i dont know if i should ask him out again.... i dont know if i should even bother with him i sort of like another guy but one of my relaly lcose friends do to. i really dont know if i should ask out my ex boyfriend or should i forget about him???**

i say you should try to get closer to your ex boyfriend again. it all depends on how close you and your ex boyfriend were when yall went out. just talk to him more and try to work things out and get better than before. then when you think the time is right..ask him out and hopefully he will say yes!! i think that you like your ex more than this other guy. try to get your ex boyfriend back and then if this other guy is still availible tHeN you can still think about him. i hope i helped!! and just be patient
--megan--

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