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Ok yesterday me and my bf his friend and my friend went to the mall and the movies. he was great in the movies cuz we were just talking (don't make out on the first date, hells ya on the second)but we started walking around and he was just different. Not horrible but weird and i didn't like it! wats up w/him? im 13 and ened up talking to my friend most of the time and him to his. Don't say go without friends cuz i can't!

hey hun, i think your dealing with shyness.. he was probably upset because you didnt kiss him or whatever in the movies because he was probably expecting that.. i know you said u dont kiss on the first so thats alright, so then when you got out of the movies it was awkward and so you each talked to ur frined instead of eachother.. i had that same problem.. well with the shyness.. i kinda still am.. when i first like a guy it takes me a while to really warm up and talk to him alone and stuff.. i always need a friend with me.. but i warm up after a while and its totally fine.. but he was probably just upset that you didnt kiss,put arms around eachother etc. in the movies! x3

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i hate asking someone this... but im fifteen and i havent had my first 'make out kiss' .. how do you?

heyy.. its perfectly fine that you havnt had your first make out kiss yet, there is no specific age, there is also no perfect way to do it.. you just roll your tongue around, dont worry you'll be a natural! x3

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1) what is the difference between making out and kissing i thought that making out is just when you do it for a long time but im not sure
2) what does bi mean

well, making out is pretty much when you french kiss, and also do it for a long time// bi (bi-sexual) means that they either like boys or girls instead of being gay where they only like a certain sex, they like both boys or girls.. hope i helped! x3

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i like this guys that has a girlfriend.. he knows i do.. and i have thrown my heart at him but he doesn't care.. and i'm starting to think i am ugly thats why he doesn't want to go out with me... i mena i know he has a girlfriend but i cannot get over him and when ever someone asks something about mee to him hes like ''no comment'' or something!!! i love him so much.. see.. i have been hanging out with his friends ALOT more now.. and now i think i like one of his friends also... and people call me a slut for liking two people... i hate it!!!! wtf should i do???

alright well first your definatly not a slut for liking two guys.. there is nothing wrong with that! so its alright.. and also dont think your ugly! just give it time.. maybe after his girlfriend and him break up [[if they do]] he will realize that ur such a great girl and start to like you.. and its alright to like his friend too.. just go along with it and maybe something wil happen between you two! x3

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i'm soo pissed! see.. well it's like this.. and .. I like this one guy... so fucking hott.. and i have for like five... six months.. and now his girlfriend.. maddie.. SHE HAS THE SAME NAME AS ME... is going out with him.. and she is one of my best friends!!! i'm so pissed i like poured out tears when i figured the were going out.. i was sooo mad.. and my other friend- james.. llikes maddie and he has liked her for like... hmm... nine months and yeah they have gone out and stuff.. so.. i like this guy and james likes madde...me and james spend most of our time feeling bad for eachother and cheering eachother up, we spend most of our day on the phone and we make eachother laugh soo hard.... now i'm beginning to think i like JAMES!!!! but i know that would never happen so.. it's all just too confusing.. please please PLEASE help me

hmm wow it sounds like your very confused lol... alright so if i get this straight u definatly still ave feelings for this guy.. but now your starting to like jamies.. well let yourself like james dont say this would never happen.. because james sounds like an awsome person and hey it may even work out you never know... just see how things go! x3

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So I'm 16 and I haven't even had my first kiss yet. I have alot of guy friends but they are all what it sounds like "guy" friends not boyfriends. I'm not a tombboy or whatever..Am I missing something here.

your not missing anything, i mean yes kissing is great but there isnt a certain age you have to kiss by.. im sure one day soon you will just be kissed and it will be wonderful!x3

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well.. i have a boyfriend.. well had a boyfriend.. and i liked him but i liked this other guy more.. so i dumped my boyfriend.. and now the other guy i like has a girlfriend!!!! and now i feel super bad for my ex boyfriend.. he like started to cry wheni was on the phone with him!! it made me want to cry..and now i keep on listening to our songs and i feel like i want him back.. i do NOT know what the hell to do..

im sry! thats just not kool.. well you gotta make mistakes in life too learn wut to do better.. but maybe you could talk to your ex again and say hey i feel really badly for what i do and i was wondering if you might want to give it another shot...but dont get ur hopes up real high cause if he says no u will be even more upset..but if i were you thats wut i would do! x3

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hey..im in 10th grade and i havent had a serious boyfriend since 8th grade. I hate being single. I want to meet someone great, and it doesnt look lke thats ever going to happen, especially in my school. It just gets kind of depressing, especially around this time of year. What if I dont have another bf until after high school!? I cant wait that long..what can i do? if anything?
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well hun, you cant just go scoping out for a boyfriend, i think that one day while you are out doing something not even thinking about boys you are just going to see that one guy and say thats him i want to get to know him.. and its just gunna happen so quickly.. see you dont wanna sound desperate cause the last thing a guy wants to know is that your so desperate for a bofriend! i am single right now too and yeah i get down since its holiday time and i see people holding hands being all cuddly but i just think thats definatly going to be me soon! and also friends are definatly there to support you! x3

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Sry so long!!! well theres this guy that ive had a thing with for a like 3 months or so and its been off and on. Well the other night i was drunk with 2 of my friends. And this guy came over and he was sober. One of my friends was pretty much passed out and she has a bf too...well this guy decided to take advantage of her and make out with her and i think maybe even more...not so sure though...after he made out with her he would come over to me and start taking advantage of me...well i didnt know that he was doing that until my other friend the only one who didnt do anything with this guy told me the next morning what went on. I want to end this thing with this guy because of what happened, but i still like him and i cant help it. what should i do?

well first you need to tell someone about this... that is just not right what that guy did to you and your friend.. and so its also not your fault.. he came onto you and you were drunk! so i think you should still like that guy and dont be guilty for it at all, you didnt do anything bad in my opinion! x3

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my boy friend and i recently broke up .. because i was mad at him.. so he dumped me.. and i no i dhouldnt feel upset.. but i do.. how do i cheer myself up. kas it doesnt feel like anything has changed.. it feels like we r still goin out. how do i get over it?

i know exatly how you feel, i feel upset when i get break ups.. its just natural but you should try maybe havin a sleepover with some of your girlfriends and just have fun.. try to forget about what happened and do girly stuff, watch movies and laugh! i know when i have breakups even if i have one friend over it helps and we laugh and i forget all about what had happened! and when you see him, dont avoid him because your not together anymore just you know act normal and friendly! hope i helpeddd x3

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There is this boy i like and he's very funny and nice, but doesn't have as many good qualities in the look department. if i tell my friends i like him, then they will laugh and make fun of me,...what do i do?

well to me in my opinion looks dont really matter... thats just the cherry on top! if your friends laugh at you then they arnt really your true friends, they shouldnt laugh at u because he doesnt have the best looks! x3

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im so paranoid and self consicous about me and my boyfriend. i kno he loves me and we are verrry close to eachother and weve been together for a while but even if he says something like ill call you at 7 and he calls at 8...i get sooo upset for that hour i wait..ill be like oh hes late he doesnt love me or watever i dont know i always do this...whats wrong with me? i KNOW he loves me but i get soo hurt and think bad things if he doesnt call when he said he would or something!! its so weird...help

nothing is wrong with you beleive me, i had that thing once.. i was always paranoid that the next day when i wake up and go to school he is just going to break up with me i hated it.. i also felt that way because we went out like 4 times for a week each... so it was different because i always though you know when a week was over that he was just going to break up with me and i hated it because i liked him so much.. and i still do but you just have to let it all go.. you cant be all worried everynight because thats going to lead to fights and not be good, if he calls a little late dont be worried he probably has a busy night, when that guy used to call me he called me everynight and if he didnt call me one night i got so nervous for the next day to come but it was all good i finally let it go and said that i just gotta live life! good luuckkk! x3

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How Do You Know If You Found The Right Person You Want To Spend The Rest of Your LIfe With ????????

you know by the feelings for them... when you are around them you feel like you never want to be with anyone else, they make you feel like you are the only person in the world that matters and you feel you never want to let them go.. you definatly will know when you find that it will just all of the sudden hit you, because if you find the wrong person you will find flaunts about you and that person together but if that person is right for you everything just seems to good to be true! x3

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ookay, well i like this guy and we've been "talking" for about 3 months now.
i know he likes me back but prolly not
as much as i like him. he knows every-
thing about me and we talk ALL the tym
but the one thing he dont know is how `
much i REALLY like him, i need help .
i dont kno how to tell him how much he
really means to me =] . plz help !! =]

hey hun, well these things happen so much, you get really close to a guy and then you realize you think that you might like him, but in your case you know for sure that you like him, i know how this feels because i have had it happen to me before.. just go ahead and tell him, dont be too straight forward though, dont just say i like you.. and thats it, slowly tell him your feelings for him, tell him how much he means to you, what a great friend he is, and that you have fallen for him.. i wish you the best of luck! x3

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