I'll answer any question i have experiance in nothing is off limits don't be afaid to ask stupid questions since a stupid question does not exsit
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Why is it that we fall in love with the bad boys, but reject the guys that are so called nerds, that love us? I'm a 45 yr old female, he's 56 years old. to me that seems old. (link)
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i'll give you the advice my mother gave me. you will fall for the bad boy but never stay with him. this helped me i picked the guy i'm with now who is a nerd (but so am i ) and we are very happy with eachother he treats me like gold and we want to get married in a few years. so take that chance on a nice guy it will pay off. but due to his age it might not be hard to change that bad boy. in the long run its your choice good luck
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Hey! I'm a fifteen year old girl, sophomore. Okay well the thing, I have this thing where I get really uncomfortable with people man handling me... Haha I'm around 5'5 and I wiegh a little over a hundred pounds (106?) so I'm not big and I'm not strong. See I wasnt exactly raped but oneof my ex boyfriends did force me to give him a hj and held ne down and fingered me against my will. He also hit me a few times.. Only my closest friends know about this. Its just made me really paranoid when a guy grabs me... I'm scared (irrationally,probably) that they'll do something to me even if it's one of my friends and were out in public.. My immediate response is I just shut down. I basically try to make myself as small as possible and shut my eyes and then it gets hard to breathe. I just don't know what to do. And I have one guy friend thar does this a lot and it really freaks me out, just the smallest thing like holding me back from getting shotgun... I don't wanna tell ppl what happened to me but they'll get suspicious of me being so uncomfortable with such a small thing... What's wrong with ne and what do I do?? (link)
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there is nothing wrong with you. i talk from experiance my ex abused me and now with the boyfreind i have i'm a little jumpy when he touches me. if you find someone who understands it isn't so bad he is teaching me to trust again but it takes time go slow and find people who can help it will get better so be strong
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Well l am a teenager and I'm dating a guy who has A LOT of experience. He wants to have sex, and I do to but there's only one problem....I am over weight and I have stretch marks on my stomach. I don't think he knows because I haven't told him and I always wear a shirt around him. We've been dating a long time, we know all about protection, and I can honestly say I love him and we are planning on getting married when we graduate high school. But I need help, I am scared to death that when we are going to have sex he will take one look at my disgusting body and never want to get physical like that again. Please, any advice? Serious answers only please. Thank you for your time. (link)
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hey don't worry guys arn't that observant trust me. i had the same problem and didn't tell him afterwards i mentioned them and said i was surprised they didn't bother him and he said "where, i don't see them" so you don't have anything to worry about and if he plans to marry you he loves you and strech marks can't break something special like that
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