18/f
Okay, i've been seeing my boyfriend for a year now and i've found out that i'm pregnant. I know i want to keep the baby, i couldn't go through with an abortion. But in September he's going away to university. I know how much he wants to go and i don't want to spoil it for him or make him feel like he has to stay. Do i tell him now? Or do i wait until he's at university and then tell him? (He's going to be living quite far away when he goes, like four to five hours drive away if that helps)
Please help!
i would talk to him about it
and tell him how you want him to go to college and stuff,
if he loves you he will understand, and he can see you on the weekends and stuff
it wouldnt spoil him, maybe it will make him happier :)
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Here's the deal. A few months ago, I went out with my ex-boyfriend,Jacob, best friend,Scott. We were dating when he introduced me to Scott.Scott was hilarous and nice. That was what bought me over. He didnt look really cute, but he was a nice guy. Thats all that mattered. Well, I didnt know that Scott was out on a trip with his family and he didnt bring his cell-phone. I had called him many times untill I just got tired of it. I called Jacob and asked him why Scott wouldnt pick up. He told me that Scott thought that I was annoying and he didnt like me anymore. I was astonished. When Scott finally called me, I asked him if he had said what Jacob did. He said that the reason why he didnt pick up was because he was on a trip with his family and he didt bring his cell phone. Not because he thought I was annoying and he didnt like me anymore. But How come some guys do that. I mean was the Jacob jelouse at Scott? Was he just trying to get me back? Or wat?
help me
P.S. im srry if I offended anyone the first time I asked this question.
some guys do this because if they like a girl, who is going after there best friend, they will think of a reason so make him look bad. i mean, that just shows what a friend he isnt, yeah ur his ex girl, but he is the jelous type. some guys do this if they like you and dont want you going out with other people. it could be worse where he would stalk you and stuff. hope this helped
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i've had two guys like me this year. i've been telling myself i want a boyfriend and i know i do. i've been single for a year and a half with one sexual relationship in between. so whenever these guys tell me they like me i'll like them for a day or two and then find some reason why it wouldn't work out and then i push them away. i won't even be friends with them. what the heck is my problem? if i want a guy, and i can get a guy, then why can't i accept what's given to me?
because maybe your just scared and dont no it. you may want a boyfriend but just dont want a relationship. you look at every little thing about them and pick it so you dont like them. give them a chance.learn to like them more and not look at every little thing. if you look at all the bright sides of it working, maybe it will work
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