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mylordwon
i know there are alot of these questions, but im 16 and me and my boyfriend had sex and it was my first time. i dunno if im just really paranoid, or that since it was my first time, I was ignorant and naive. before having sex we did some stuff he didn't go all the way in because he didn't have a condom, but im wondering if thats what could get me pregante. I'm showing symtoms like my chest hurts and i have insane cravings in the middle of the night, also im having cramps and im no where near my period, could i be pregnate?? Also, our relationship is kinda dying, it's getting more and more boring and little things are starting to bug me. when we first started dating everything was so exciting and never boring but now its just kinda blahh... but i love him, and i dont wanna break up with him, but i want the realationship to get better... how should i tell him that im bored and what should i do about it?? (link)
If your man did not cum inside of you, I don't think you will have anything to worry about. I have had sex many times with my husband, not even on the pill, and he has always went on my stomach or back. We have never been pregnant from pre-ejaculation. If you are nowhere near your period, dont worry about it right now. Maybe your body is changing and your chest is starting to hurt a week or two before you start your period like mine do. If you are bored in your relationship, you need to tell him that you really care about him and dont want to lose him,but you need to shake things up a little more. Go out and do more things together? If he gives you an answer that you don't accept or agree with, then maybe you should think about ending your relationship. You are only 16 honey. There is a lot more out there. You havent even went to college yet! There are so many of men there! oh my gosh! Don't get ahead of yourself and let your man go inside of you with no condom. I never let anyone do it anyway till I was married! I had my first love at 16, and guess what, he is not the one I married. Listen to your heart girl! It tells the truth. Trust me.


Okay, so I am going to college next school year.
I've never been into any real or intimate relationships because there's not a lot of guys to choose from in our school(if you know what i mean...;) ).

I want to attract guys in college. Any ways as to how I can do that?

Thanks! (link)
There is nothing wrong with being yourself. You DONT want to present yourself as being a slut do you? Then again, there is nothing wrong with you starting small talk either. When you go out with your girls, and you see a cute guy you would like to talk to, keep eye contact with him and if you have the guts, walk up to him and say "my name is _____, what is your name? are you having a good time tonight? what is your major?" Men can also we afraid of coming up to you as you are of them.


I'd rather have guys anwser this.

but
If you call a guy beautiful or gorgeous, is it kinda weird for them or something like that.

But would they rather be called handsome or cute

or just all of it is fine.

thanks. (link)
I am a female, but what is wrong with calling a man beautiful? I call my husband this when we are alone. Just think, long ago men use to say, "she is the most handsome woman i have seen." Watch Pride and Prejuice.




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